Hi
well as Yoda says
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myself I regard it as more like the promise of Fusion Energy, always 20 years away (since the 1960's).
I don't see this as a problem because of the fact that you now have some years to learn and understand, as I said, there is no rush.
My own situation can serve as a good example of how your situation is actually better than mine was (and I'm pretty happy with my own outcomes).
I had my bicuspid valve discovered at about 5 and operated on at about 10 years old. This was chosen to be a repair (and yes it was a standard Open Heart Surgery as there were no trans catheter anythings back then. I was one of the first in Australia to have what we call now call angiograms, but they were then crude by modern standards. A repair was chosen because being young a steel ring with a valve on it (you really should familiarise yourself with the engineering of this, I have little doubt it formed the basis of my education in biology and engineering) into an organ (my heart) that was still growing.
My next surgery was always discussed from the start and my surgeon was always looking towards the (then actual, frequent and large) developments in technology while balancing actual health risks. I did well on the repair into my 20's but by mid 20's it was starting to calcify and stop working.
At 28 (while I was at University doing my second degree) the time came and we replaced the clagged up one of my own with a cryo-preserved human valve of the right type and size. Recovery went well and my question was always about "when is #3"
The answer was always "we don't know" (which was the truth, but not terribly helpful). I had long long ago since given up worrying about any of this (perhaps I was to young to have ever worried about it. On a side note I had developed in my mid teens an interest in Ancient Greece and Rome. From that I discovered the philosophy of the times,
Stoicism. This is a quote from a Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius (no, not the one in Gladiator, the real one ;-)
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I try my best to live by that.
Anyway my #2 valve (being a live tissue valve) lasted for some time, but (being live tissue that is explanted and replanted) suffers some handling issues and at around the 20 year mark started to show me signs of it losing its capacity.
I had (for various life reasons) stopped going to follow-ups (reasons such as living in different places around the world) and as we (my wife and I) were going back to Australia I submitted myself to get an examination.
This is when they discovered my aneurysm, which was a tiddler in comparison to your beauty. It was however enough to get everyone concerned (5.6cm) and while the valve was still functioning and my symptoms were barely evident I had an operation to replace that whole thing with what you have now, a Bentall.
Now at this time my surgeon (an understudy of my first, as you can imagine all of this spans 40 years) told me that at #3 I faced an important decision. The complexity of another redo would make a 4th surgery one of the most complex surgeries possible and (his words) "Surgeons will not be lining up to do it" (because nobody wants deaths on their list).
I didn't hesitate, I went mechanical because I already knew that a bileaflet pyrolytic valve would last billions of actuations, well into my late 90's (which I don't anticipate getting to) and beyond. The penalty was of course that I had to take warfarin. I instantly assumed (I'm originally a biochemist) that "I can manage that" and in my life up to that point I have managed every obstacle (of course with the help of others). I did Manage That and this is
my blog post on that. Its lengthy and detailed and you really don't need to know all that now, but what you
can take from that is this:
- 90% of what you hear about managing Anti Coagulation Therapy is (at best) ******** or (being nice) highly slanted in basis
- there are cost effective personal tools that you can use to self manage (discussed and demonstrated in that post)
- you are not chained to anything
- managing INR is much easier than what diabetics must do to manage their blood sugar levels
I visit a cardiologist now (a very nice fellow) about every 2 or so years, and this is a change that's occured in the time between surgery #2 and surgery #3, we only saw surgeons (who are actually the ultimate authority on surgery). We mostly just chat about things because all my numbers are perfectly in line with the age group I'm in of "normal no heart problems at all" people.
I would expect the same for you.
I will say that you've been told some little "porkie pies" about the future of a "repair" which are not founded in the present and not likely, but it doesn't matter.
It doesn't matter because you now have the outfit (well except for the valve itself) for reducing the chances of ever needing another surgery : you have the aneurysm dealt with, for that is what drove my (like your) surgery. Now you will more than likely just face one more surgery to stitch on a new (you should consider mechanical) valve when that tissue valve enters (inevitably) SVD.
Ultimately at your age having your first surgery you are definitely more than one up on me, and having a second (which will probably time in less than 15 years) will give you plenty of time to understand the issues, understand the choices and go in informed. It will also give you time to adjust to a new understanding of life and make you more likely to be a good candidate for 100% compliance with your ACT and thus an excellent chance of a "normal life" (god help me if I ever have one of those, I'd fall asleep at the fhukken wheel).
Anyway, reach out if you wish, and we can talk. I'm in Australia (as my posting data shows) but we can do voice or something and have a laugh about the whole thing.
Bottom line = "you are doing well, you can find your own limits and set your own goals and limits". You can see that I live out in the country now (lived in the big cities enough) and indeed I am a very cautious person on my pensioner mobility scooter
Looks like fun but your driving in the wrong lane. Lol
well behaved too ;-)
Best Wishes