stephenismycopilot
Active member
Hi, guys. This site has already helped me feel a bit better about The Big Crack, coming up in just six days. Here's my deal (and plea for advice):
My cardiologist and surgeon are split on whether I had a hidden congenital defect that suddenly went haywire or if I had some mystery infection I didn't know about, but sometime in the past year, my aortic valve began failing rapidly: aortic valve regurgitation, and it's running at about 50% now, which is shutting my heart down. I had no symptoms, and it was a routine check-up that led my GP to send me immediately down the hall to cardiology for an EKG. After that, things happened fast: umpteen echos, a TEE, cath angiogram, CT scan, dental exam for surgical clearance; all within the last couple weeks. Surgery is scheduled for the 21st. My cardiologist told me it was kind of a foregone conclusion that I'd get a mechanical valve, so I didn't weigh the options too much. It wasn't until my first consult with the surgeon yesterday (I know, things are moving very fast indeed) that he presented a bovine valve as an option. It was in that same consult that he... didn't try to talk me out of mechanical, per se, but did explain to me what sounded like the life-ruining horrors of Coumadin. The constant monitoring. The risk of stroke. The risk of internal bleeding. Etc. He told me to take the week to read up and think about it and let him know the morning of the surgery which one I wanted. Talk about pressure, right?
I lead a fairly active lifestyle: lots of walking, hiking, weight training. My job can be physically demanding. I enjoy time outdoors. I also love food, and I'm scared of limiting my diet and losing my ability to prepare or order meals spontaneously. I am also heavily tattooed with more planned, and I'm not keen on never being able to get another. Taking a pill every day shouldn't be an issue, but he also said I could basically never drink again. Now, I enjoy whiskey and Scotch, hoppy craft beers, dry wine. Admittedly a bit too much, as my liver enzymes are elevated and my GP has told me it's time to cut way back anyway. But the surgeon said I'd be essentially limited to one beer a week for the rest of my life, have to restrict and closely monitor my diet, should not partake of any cannabis (I'm in California, where it is recreationally legal, and I mostly partake of edibles and vaporized dry herb) and will be always at risk of stroke or internal injury. This is my first major health problem in my life, my first surgery, and I can't tell if I'm focusing on the doom and gloom instead of making a measured decision.
I've read lots of posts on here from both pro-tissue and pro-mechanical, which while encouraging have not really helped push me in one direction or the other. And the quickly approaching surgery date isn't helping matters! I'd love any wisdom/experience you could share based on your own experience with similar lifestyle/age. Like many other folks, the idea of TAVR appeals to me; the idea of another OHS before I even turn 50 does not.
Thank you guys so much for making this page. I'm so glad Google brought it to me when it did, and I'm grateful to have a place to come back to for advice and encouragement as I go through recovery.
My cardiologist and surgeon are split on whether I had a hidden congenital defect that suddenly went haywire or if I had some mystery infection I didn't know about, but sometime in the past year, my aortic valve began failing rapidly: aortic valve regurgitation, and it's running at about 50% now, which is shutting my heart down. I had no symptoms, and it was a routine check-up that led my GP to send me immediately down the hall to cardiology for an EKG. After that, things happened fast: umpteen echos, a TEE, cath angiogram, CT scan, dental exam for surgical clearance; all within the last couple weeks. Surgery is scheduled for the 21st. My cardiologist told me it was kind of a foregone conclusion that I'd get a mechanical valve, so I didn't weigh the options too much. It wasn't until my first consult with the surgeon yesterday (I know, things are moving very fast indeed) that he presented a bovine valve as an option. It was in that same consult that he... didn't try to talk me out of mechanical, per se, but did explain to me what sounded like the life-ruining horrors of Coumadin. The constant monitoring. The risk of stroke. The risk of internal bleeding. Etc. He told me to take the week to read up and think about it and let him know the morning of the surgery which one I wanted. Talk about pressure, right?
I lead a fairly active lifestyle: lots of walking, hiking, weight training. My job can be physically demanding. I enjoy time outdoors. I also love food, and I'm scared of limiting my diet and losing my ability to prepare or order meals spontaneously. I am also heavily tattooed with more planned, and I'm not keen on never being able to get another. Taking a pill every day shouldn't be an issue, but he also said I could basically never drink again. Now, I enjoy whiskey and Scotch, hoppy craft beers, dry wine. Admittedly a bit too much, as my liver enzymes are elevated and my GP has told me it's time to cut way back anyway. But the surgeon said I'd be essentially limited to one beer a week for the rest of my life, have to restrict and closely monitor my diet, should not partake of any cannabis (I'm in California, where it is recreationally legal, and I mostly partake of edibles and vaporized dry herb) and will be always at risk of stroke or internal injury. This is my first major health problem in my life, my first surgery, and I can't tell if I'm focusing on the doom and gloom instead of making a measured decision.
I've read lots of posts on here from both pro-tissue and pro-mechanical, which while encouraging have not really helped push me in one direction or the other. And the quickly approaching surgery date isn't helping matters! I'd love any wisdom/experience you could share based on your own experience with similar lifestyle/age. Like many other folks, the idea of TAVR appeals to me; the idea of another OHS before I even turn 50 does not.
Thank you guys so much for making this page. I'm so glad Google brought it to me when it did, and I'm grateful to have a place to come back to for advice and encouragement as I go through recovery.