Hi everyone! I'm a 30 year old woman in need of Aortic valve replacement due to regurgitation. I've known I would need this done for the past 4 years so I have read a LOT about the options. Until a few weeks ago I would have said I was 100% going mechanical. A month ago I met with a surgeon to discuss my "options" because my symptoms are getting ridiculous and the TEE showed my valve was prolapsing (why does this happen?). That surgeon pushed hard for tissue for 2 main reasons 1) I'm of childbearing age (which I am done with as far as I know. I have 2 ACTIVE wonderful little boys) 2) the "real" possibility that by the time I need it replaced, I could get it done percutaneously. I thought he was full of it and went to go see another surgeon still thinking mechanical was the way to go. When I met with the second surgeon (who I trusted MUCH more) he didn't push one way or the other. He did stress that coumadin was NOT a non-issue, that is WAS a big deal and I should be ready for all that it entails. He also was honest and said there is not enough evidence about the percutaneous valve replacement to put too much hope into that. For example he said it can only be replaced that way once, so if I got tissue now it lasted say 15 years (which I really only expect 10) I would be 45 and if I got the percutaneous valve by the time that fails (which he said they have "no idea" how long that would last) I would still need another big surgery. Every option I have is like that. Round and round my thought process goes. If I go tissue now with the thought to go mechanical later I could still end up on coumadin if I get Afib (any other reasons out there?) and I have to worry about feeling like I do now (crappy) until I can get it fixed and then have to go through another surgery and recovery! If I go mechanical I'm on coumadin for (say I live to 80, my grandma is 89) 50 years! Yikes! Can someone really escape a major problem for 50 years! I'm 30 I can't even imagine what 50 years is! :smile2: Plus there's still the chance I have to have another surgery in the future for tissue ingrowth, valve failure, or other reasons. I know that the choice I make with save my life and whatever it is will be right for me but I can't help but be frustrated that there is not a "perfect" option.
So my questions are...
1) What would you do if you were a 30 year old woman?
2) Would 10-15 years without having to take coumadin be worth the risks associated with a second surgery? ( I'm thinking about periods, migraines, ovarian cysts, remote possibility that something happens to my husband and I end up with someone who wants babies, rollercoasters, canoe trips in the wilderness, hiking, rockclimbing, etc...)
3)If I happen to have an aortic aneurysm is it just better to go mechanical so there is less "messing around" in there? or is tissue better in that instance? (I have a CT angiogram scheduled in a week)
I'm not looking to start a debate about which is better, just to see if I can pick your brains on which is better for ME. This forum is such a valuable resource, Thank you all who participate!
So my questions are...
1) What would you do if you were a 30 year old woman?
2) Would 10-15 years without having to take coumadin be worth the risks associated with a second surgery? ( I'm thinking about periods, migraines, ovarian cysts, remote possibility that something happens to my husband and I end up with someone who wants babies, rollercoasters, canoe trips in the wilderness, hiking, rockclimbing, etc...)
3)If I happen to have an aortic aneurysm is it just better to go mechanical so there is less "messing around" in there? or is tissue better in that instance? (I have a CT angiogram scheduled in a week)
I'm not looking to start a debate about which is better, just to see if I can pick your brains on which is better for ME. This forum is such a valuable resource, Thank you all who participate!