dornole
firstly I think its important to remember what I was answering (
as I actually even wrote first up):
to answer the question posed in the thread title I'll say probably because:
which as a reminder is:
Why did my doc say that he would choose a tissue valve for me?
so if I was asked to answer what is 4 and 5 and I said 9 but others said 20 then its not that they are wrong, its that they're answering a different question.
dornole you wrote:
if you only knew how much effort goes into remembering to take pills every day for some of u.... I assure you, the struggle is real!
and I agree ... I think I DO know how much effort is required and I (like you) have alarms all over the joint and methods to prevent me forgetting. But that's exactly the point. You and I are not stupid, and indeed I don't think anyone even posting here is, but there ARE stupid people out there, there ARE people out there who can't manage themselves. The Doctors SEE THEM and react. They are (hopefully) most concerned with the best outcomes for the patient.
For
those patients (and others of different reasons)
then I can see that a tissue valve will be the best option. If you could step outside of your own experience and think for a moment about the people you've met in the street who you shake your head about and go "
****, I'm glad I'm not like that" we all know people like that (and if you don't trust me they're there) .. well they may need a valve too? Should they be expected to be what they can't be? I agree that they would be better served by smartening up, but maybe they cant?
You see I do have a heart, despite my blunt words I do actually care. I care that they get the "
BEST" treatment and for them if one is sure they won't smarten up or "
pull up their socks" then its easy to see
why a surgeon will recommend a tissue valve.
Is the OP that person?
No, I don't think so.
But I didn't answer that question , I answered the question that was asked.
a point made just now by protime is:
Anticoagulation management isn't just getting a blood draw when an 'anticoagulation clinic' decides you should get one.
and I agree, self management does require thought and effort, its not perfect or even a good idea for many. Also for people who are not competent or not willing to do this, better outcomes may be had with a tissue valve.
I have heard stories from my friends of people taking the entire bottle of warfarin before an appointment ... so they could say to the Dr "yes sir, I took all my pills" (and then being hospitalised with an INR which was off the scale).
Myself I'm an engineer, I'm a prefectionist (though you may not think so to look around my house, so its clearly topic related) and I am smart enough to manage myself. I speak a lot with my mate who runs a pharmacy (a pharmacist himself and part time lecturer) and he assures me that many patients are not missing "
a dose here and there" but missing "
a week here and there". For some drugs that's not a big issue. For a heart valve patient on warfarin that's a big issue.
All points which should be considered carefully
even if I do sound harsh
and indeed I'm not disagreeing with you, I'm just explaining why so that you (and others) can understand my words better ... it is only ASCII text after all