I've never seen this topic discussed before, so I find it interesting others have the samefeelings my husband had.
The day before the surgery, as we went through the pre surgery tests, shavings, etc., my husband said in the afternoon that he wanted to see the surgeon again beforehand. And, that if he could not see him, then just cancel the surgery. Of course heads turned at that, as he was SO sick by this time. The surgeon was a true gentleman. Came down in his scrubs as soon as he finished a surgery. I'll admit he was annoyed at first. But, my husband said to him "I want to know if you or someone on your staff is going to do my surgery." The Dr. kind of grinned, and said that he was going to do the surgery, and that frankly there weren't a lot of Dr.'s hanging around Mass General that could actually do the surgery that needed to be done, so don't worry about it, he would be the one doing it all. (My husband had dual valves inserted, and they thought they might have to put in a dacron repair to his aorta.) - Not only did he do the surgery, but he was in the CICU many hours later, checking up on him, still in his scrubs.