Be careful when reading the posts. I note a lot of mixing of aortic (AVR) valve information with mitral valve information. The two are quite different in terms of the valves that can be used, how well they work, and how long they last. Aortic valve information is not interchangeable with mitral valve statistics on any level.
I lean toward tissue valves whenever reasonable, but you should be aware that tissue valves do not last as long in the mitral position. The appearance is about 70%-80% of what would be expected from aortic service. This is partly because the blood can move more slowly over the valve, and calcification occurs more quickly. While the anticalcification treatments might help that, there isnt a track record for it at all, and you would be truly taking your chances. At your age, you could very reasonably be looking at three surgeries at least, even with a bovine valve.
Mitral surgery goes through even more damagable parts of the heart than aortic surgery, and, especially with multiple surgeries at the mitral valve site, there is a good chance that atrial fibrillation can be a result of one of those surgeries. If you do wind up with chronic afib, you will likley wind up on Coumadin anyway.
Coumadin will not affect most of your active lifestyle. A little easy on the soccer, perhaps, or more padding. In your shoes, I would most likely be considering a mechanical valve. Interestingly, although not in use for aortic implants anymore, tilting disk valves work quite well in the mitral position. However, the choice will likely be between a St. Jude valve and one of the other top brands. I would likely take one of the others, as there have been some hemodynamic improvements in them that the St. Jude model is not yet using. Every little edge you can get, I say.
If you have myxomatous tissue issues, the Ross Procedure would likely not be a permanent fix for you, as your own tissue may well fail over time, or not even be usable right up front. I have seen one post where the surgeon is supposed to have said that Coumadin affects myxomatous tissue negatively, but the post was never verified, and I have never seen any studies or even discussion literature to that effect, and frankly don't believe it. By the same token, we do know that operating multiple times on myxomatous tissue can be very risky, as it may not heal properly.
If you want to narrow a search down to some threads that discuss myxomatous tissue, Rachel Howell and I have posted quite a bit about it.
Best wishes,