Christina L
Well-known member
I received this from my cousin - it helps my state of mind right now in our adoption quest. We have a year's wait ahead of us just for the referral of a daughter from China. Our dossier is in China as of 8/10/2006.
Anyway, the long waiting period gives Wayne and I lots of time to change our mind, but God willing we will be parents around this time next year.
I'm sure those of you who are parents and now grandparents totally understand these sentiments. This may have been on VR.com before, I don't know.
Christina L
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The Price of Children
The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child
from birth
to 18 and came up with $160,140.00 for a middle income family. Talk
about price shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition.
But $160,140.00 isn't so bad if you break it down. It
translates into:
* $8,896.66 a year,
* $741.38 a month, or
* $171.08 a week.
* That's a mere $24.24 a day!
* Just over a dollar an hour.
Still, you might think the best financial advice is don't have
children if
you want to be "rich." Actually, it is just the opposite.
What do you get for your $160,140.00?
* Naming rights. First, middle, and last!
* Glimpses of God every day.
* Giggles under the covers every night.
* More love than your heart can hold.
* Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.
* Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.
* A hand to hold, usually covered with jelly or chocolate.
* A partner for blowing bubbles and flying kites.
* Someone to laugh yourself silly with, no matter what the boss
said or how your stocks performed that day.
For $160,140.00, you never have to grow up. You get to:
* finger-paint,
* carve pumpkins,
* play hide-and-seek,
* catch lightning bugs, and
* never stop believing in Santa Claus.
You have an excuse to:
* keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh,
* watch Saturday morning cartoons,
* go to Disney movies, and
* wish on stars.
* You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under
refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for
Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with
backward letters for Father's Day.
For a mere $24.24 a day, there is no greater bang for your buck. You
get to be a hero just for:
* retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof,
* taking the training wheels off a bike,
* removing a splinter,
* filling a wading pool,
* coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball
team that
never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.
You get a front row seat in history to witness the:
* first step,
* first word,
* first bra,
* first date, and
* first time behind the wheel.
You get to be immortal. You get another branch added to your family
tree,
and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called
grandchildren and great grandchildren.
You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal
justice,communications, and human sexuality that no college can match.
In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God.
You have
all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the
bed,
patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever,
and love
them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without
counting
the cost. That is quite a deal for the price!!!!!!!
Love & enjoy your children & grandchildren & great-grandchildren
!!!!!!!
It's the best investment you'll make!
Anyway, the long waiting period gives Wayne and I lots of time to change our mind, but God willing we will be parents around this time next year.
I'm sure those of you who are parents and now grandparents totally understand these sentiments. This may have been on VR.com before, I don't know.
Christina L
------------------------------------
The Price of Children
The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child
from birth
to 18 and came up with $160,140.00 for a middle income family. Talk
about price shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition.
But $160,140.00 isn't so bad if you break it down. It
translates into:
* $8,896.66 a year,
* $741.38 a month, or
* $171.08 a week.
* That's a mere $24.24 a day!
* Just over a dollar an hour.
Still, you might think the best financial advice is don't have
children if
you want to be "rich." Actually, it is just the opposite.
What do you get for your $160,140.00?
* Naming rights. First, middle, and last!
* Glimpses of God every day.
* Giggles under the covers every night.
* More love than your heart can hold.
* Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.
* Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.
* A hand to hold, usually covered with jelly or chocolate.
* A partner for blowing bubbles and flying kites.
* Someone to laugh yourself silly with, no matter what the boss
said or how your stocks performed that day.
For $160,140.00, you never have to grow up. You get to:
* finger-paint,
* carve pumpkins,
* play hide-and-seek,
* catch lightning bugs, and
* never stop believing in Santa Claus.
You have an excuse to:
* keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh,
* watch Saturday morning cartoons,
* go to Disney movies, and
* wish on stars.
* You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under
refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for
Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with
backward letters for Father's Day.
For a mere $24.24 a day, there is no greater bang for your buck. You
get to be a hero just for:
* retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof,
* taking the training wheels off a bike,
* removing a splinter,
* filling a wading pool,
* coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball
team that
never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.
You get a front row seat in history to witness the:
* first step,
* first word,
* first bra,
* first date, and
* first time behind the wheel.
You get to be immortal. You get another branch added to your family
tree,
and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called
grandchildren and great grandchildren.
You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal
justice,communications, and human sexuality that no college can match.
In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God.
You have
all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the
bed,
patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever,
and love
them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without
counting
the cost. That is quite a deal for the price!!!!!!!
Love & enjoy your children & grandchildren & great-grandchildren
!!!!!!!
It's the best investment you'll make!
