Hi, Valerie........
Hi, Valerie........
We were not really given an option. Dr. Bove said that a tissue valve just doesn't last in children Katie's age due to calcification and the immense pressures under which that common AV valve is working. I have to confess that I really wish that tissue had been an option for us, not for childbearing reasons obviously, but because Katie is such a little hellion and warning her that she has to be a little more conservative now is like telling a dog not to ever bark again................that - and the blasted blood draws.
In the same breath, after our last surgical adventure with such arrythmia issues and the HIT development, I am thankful - and hopeful - that we should not have to have any more surgeries any time in the near future. Then I think of Tommy's valve clotting shut and I panic again...............sigh!
As much as Alexia has been through, though, I think y'all made the right choice. The main reason young women don't choose mechanical is usually due to childbearing, and, for Katie and Alexia, that is not an option. Sometimes I want to just cry when Katie mentions "when I have a baby." UGH! Way too early to break that news to her. BTW, I know Alexia does not have a fontan, but one of the nurses I was talking to said that they have had six patients (that they track/treat at UofM) with the fontan get pregnant. Of those six, two died. The other four delivered four healthy babies, but then two of those moms had to be listed for transplant. Although a small sampling, not good stats at all.
For what it is worth, I think "y'all done good." Much love. J.