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Dennis S

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I was up early this morning, and checking up on how things are going for all my friends on the forum. We are going in a million different directions. Having babies, having grand-babies; working, looking for work; building play structures and baby cribs; recovering from surgery & getting ready for surgery. I just walked out on the deck & looked into a clear blue New Mexico sky. I look up & see a towering ponderosa pine, full of pine cones (all babies, if you are a ponderosa pine), and a big raven perched at the top. He, with his powerful raven eyes, might laugh that the view I see overwhelms me.

And as I stood there, I hoped that some of our surgeons, nurses and researchers might stumble across our heart vavlve replacement forum and be uplifted by the fruits of their training and labors. All of these ambitious, precious, and unique lives and voices that were destined for early silence-but here we are, living our lives like everyone else, but with the added zest of those who have been given a second chance. My heart is full of gratitude, and between the clacking of the keyboard, I stop and hear that heart ticking away-and I am amazed.
 
Dennis S said:
.... All of these ambitious, precious, and unique lives and voices that were destined for early silence-but here we are, living our lives like everyone else, but with the added zest of those who have been given a second chance....
I would hope each of us remembers this daily. We are so very lucky to be here and I am so very grateful to the doctors, nurses, and staff members who made my continuing life possible. We are all so very blessed.
Dennis - do you have extra room on your mountain?
 
Dennis,
Thanks so much for the beautiful sentiments. Life is so good after heart surgery and now and again, we all need to be reminded to cherish it and also appreciate those who helped us along the way. I agree, this forum is a testimony to life and all its rewards.:D
 
Dennis, we took a vote (you may have missed it). We are turning your home into the VR Retreat sight.
 
Kewl - Spring Reunion at Dennis' house. All in favor raise your hands!
 
Thank you for that wonderful sentiment. I'm just a few days away from my surgery and am feeling these things so deeply, already. Great appreciation for the magnificence of the gift I am about to be granted.

:) Marguerite
 
*raises hands ... wildly ... in the air*



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Cort, I knew you'd jump in there! Any excuse to drive across country.

How're you feeling?
 
*chuckles*

Ah, Georgia, my friend, you know me way too well, eh? ;) But, yes, ANY excuse to drive across the great United States! Oh my goodness I could use a road trip right NOW!!!!!!!

Hmm...that question is a loaded one, ya know ;). When I'm home and doing things I love ... I feel fine. When I'm at work ... well, let's just say that I feel less than 100% and leave it at that, alrighty? Heh...

Seriously, though, I'm doing better than I was. I still have abdominal pains (doctors are convinced it is work related since tests have shown/proven nothing), but I can't let them stop me. I'm definitely searching out for a new job ... and getting frustrated by the minute because I keep hitting "no"s and jobs I can't take because of no health insurance, etc.

But ... this, too, shall pass :).

And, thanks for asking! :).

How are YOU feeling? ;) (Turnabout is fair play, after all ... he he he)
 
Feeling great. Still getting over Mom - still have bad moments; get this guilty feeling that I should call her, etc. But it'll be better.

Jim & I are driving out to CO on Wed. to gather more stuff to bring home (car was almost entirely packed with houseplants when we came back after the funeral). And of course we love it out there. We're keeping her condo for a vacation home, so there are some things we need to do. I just wish we enjoyed driving as much as you do.
 
I'm going to Dennis's place

I'm going to Dennis's place

This Ohio weather stinks!:(
 
Georgia,

Glad to know you are feeling great, but I know what you mean about having bad moments. It hit me today (being Easter) that now both Gram and Gramps are no longer with us. Heh...yet, it's almost like they're still here and participating in the conversation....sorta.... I know about the calling, too. When Gram was still alive, I made sure I was out there as often as I could be. With Gramps, I did my best at going once a month, but I made up for that by calling him every Sunday ... whether I was home or on the road. I wish I had done more of the weekly calls when Gram was alive, too....

Well, if you don't enjoy the drive as much as I do ... hire me to drive you out there ;).

Seriously, tho, glad to know you're keeping the condo as a vacation home ... sounds perfect to me!
 
Dennis,
What a wonderul post....goosebumps all over....
And I visit this sight as a BAV pt's daughter, newly diagnosed BAVD, and registered nurse. So I can definately understand all of the sentiments there. We (at least most of us, anyway) in healthcare are in it for exactly what you mentioned. Compassion, strength, the will to go on and the means and ways to do it...
 
Where is Captain Ross

Where is Captain Ross

geebee said:
I'm with you. When does the bus, plane, whatever, leave?:D ;) :D
And the VR.com airplane when we really need him?:confused:
 
What a coincidence

What a coincidence

BAV Pt's daughter said:
Dennis,
What a wonderul post....goosebumps all over....
And I visit this sight as a BAV pt's daughter, newly diagnosed BAVD, and registered nurse. So I can definately understand all of the sentiments there. We (at least most of us, anyway) in healthcare are in it for exactly what you mentioned. Compassion, strength, the will to go on and the means and ways to do it...

Angela: Thanks for the response, and all you do. Here is an interesting coincidence: We left home on Friday to visit our son & daughter-in-law in Minnesota. When we got to Minnesota, to our surprise & great delight, we were amazed to find our daughter & new grand-daughter surprised us by also flying to Minnesota. Here is the coincidence-I read your nice post this evening, and realize you are in the little town of Sanford North Carolina. The same town my daughter lives in when she isn't surprising her parents by flying to Minnesota!

Rob: Here is what the weather looked like when we left. But what we really need is some rain.
 
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