Well Deb, for the mitral valve condition I have anyway, they will definitely intervene when asymptomatic if I pass certain trigger points on the echo, because they know how it progresses from there and it is not good. Symptomatic patients have a different flow chart. It was really informative for me to look at some of these, especially compared to AVR ones (for example, the use of ejection fraction is radically different for MVR vs. AVR). It seems to REALLY depend on the exact valve AND condition of the valve (stenosis, regurgitation, both) as to whether they will operate on asymptomatic patients.
For me, I trust my cardiologist to follow his flow chart for the echo results to decide when it is go time. I use a heart rate monitor to objectively track my fitness levels doing prescribed workouts over time so I can objectively report if I am losing aerobic fitness in even a subtle way, that way I'm giving the best info I can on the "symptomatic" part. If I'm asymptomatic and doc thinks numbers are still ok, yeah I'll put off surgery. : ) If I'm asymptomatic and he says GO . . . or I become symptomatic and he says NO . . . I'll get a second opinion. I'm prepared to get surgery without symptoms, but I'm not going to proactively ask them to Cut Me Now either. There's for sure risks to surgery and as others have said, they can develop better techniques, or I could be one of the lucky ones who gets a really nice long run between procedures.