I thought I had made up my mind firmly. Then I went to the cardiologist. Then I went to the surgeon. Here is what they have to say.
Cardiologist: Definitely go bio-prosthetic. Why? I'm young - 42. He said I've got a lot of living yet to do, and shouldn't have to think about being careful and blood thinners forever. Also, if any other surgeries come up - and since I'm "young" it's entirely possible, given my estimated life span, that blood thinners would be a major consideration. He cited a case where a mid-40s female patient with a mechanical valve had to have a hysterectomy, and was in hospital a lot longer than she should have been, as there were issues with internal bleeding. That really scares me!
Surgeon: Definitely go mechanical. Research shows that bio valves don't last as long in younger patients, but there's no reason given for that yet. He's concerned that if I go bio, I will be back in 5 years for another surgery. He said that while he does want to earn money, that's NOT the way he wants to do it. He said if I were 52 years old I *might* be able to sweet talk him into a bio valve, but was adamant that a bio valve would not be the best choice for me right now. And "No, you cannot wait until you're 52 for this surgery." I have 2 concerns for the mechanical - 1) blood thinners. Forever. (Not a daily big deal for me, it's just a pill. It's the whole thing - out kayaking, slip and fall on an oyster bar, become shark bait. I also wonder how blood thinners will affect my menstrual cycle.) 2) I'm scared that once I hear the damn thing ticking/clicking, I will NEVER be able to un-hear it. (I was told once "Don't ever count your steps while walking, because you won't be able to stop. MMhmm. There were 52 stair steps between my freshman dorm and my 8am class. That was 25 years ago. 18 steps from the front door to the car. 17 more to the mailbox. I don't like odd numbers. Grr!)
I've got 2 weeks to make a decision. And I know that no matter what, I will ALWAYS second guess my decision. What do you say?
Cardiologist: Definitely go bio-prosthetic. Why? I'm young - 42. He said I've got a lot of living yet to do, and shouldn't have to think about being careful and blood thinners forever. Also, if any other surgeries come up - and since I'm "young" it's entirely possible, given my estimated life span, that blood thinners would be a major consideration. He cited a case where a mid-40s female patient with a mechanical valve had to have a hysterectomy, and was in hospital a lot longer than she should have been, as there were issues with internal bleeding. That really scares me!
Surgeon: Definitely go mechanical. Research shows that bio valves don't last as long in younger patients, but there's no reason given for that yet. He's concerned that if I go bio, I will be back in 5 years for another surgery. He said that while he does want to earn money, that's NOT the way he wants to do it. He said if I were 52 years old I *might* be able to sweet talk him into a bio valve, but was adamant that a bio valve would not be the best choice for me right now. And "No, you cannot wait until you're 52 for this surgery." I have 2 concerns for the mechanical - 1) blood thinners. Forever. (Not a daily big deal for me, it's just a pill. It's the whole thing - out kayaking, slip and fall on an oyster bar, become shark bait. I also wonder how blood thinners will affect my menstrual cycle.) 2) I'm scared that once I hear the damn thing ticking/clicking, I will NEVER be able to un-hear it. (I was told once "Don't ever count your steps while walking, because you won't be able to stop. MMhmm. There were 52 stair steps between my freshman dorm and my 8am class. That was 25 years ago. 18 steps from the front door to the car. 17 more to the mailbox. I don't like odd numbers. Grr!)
I've got 2 weeks to make a decision. And I know that no matter what, I will ALWAYS second guess my decision. What do you say?