I find the group here kind and supportive so I ask for their feedback on something that I’m struggling with.
I’m a 72 year old male with aortic stenosis and a possible bicuspid aortic valve. I have been in monitor mode for almost three years. The last four echo tests have shown my stenosis progressing from mild to currently moderate or moderate/serious. Other than high blood pressure, which I control with meds, I’m fairly healthy and active for my age.
One of my sons lives in Colorado near Boulder. He hikes 14,000 foot mountains as a hobby and has a goal of hiking all 54 of them in CO. One of the things we share is the love of the mountains. In 2013 and 2014, I flew from my home in Western PA hike with him. In June of 2014, I summited my first 14,000 ft mountain, Mt Sherman. At that time, my stenosis was in the moderate category and I will admit that it was not easy. The shortness of breath is aggregated by the altitude and my stenosis. But, I was able to make it.
I started seeing a cardiologist in June of 2015 when my stenosis approached the mild category. She told me that my 14,000 ft mountain hiking days are over until I get my valve replaced. Last September, my son visited me in Western PA and we did a two day hike of 23 miles in the wilds of PA. I didn’t ask my doc for permission, I just did it. It was a relative mild hike as far as elevation gain, only about 1500 feet. But the 95 degree weather, a 35 pound backpack and my stenosis did require me to take it slow and rested often.
In December of last year as my echo test indicated I may be approaching the serious category. Due to concerns about the doc and test results, I sought another opinion and my new cardiologist says I am 12 – 24 months away from needing surgery. However, he also tells me I need to limit my physical activity: no 14,000 ft mountains, no hiking, put my chain saw on the shelf, and so on.
This summer my son plans on hiking his last (54[SUP]th[/SUP]) 14,000 foot mountain. He and I have talked for years about us hiking his last one together.
I’m considering trying to do it.
I would like to have a serious conversation with my cardiologist about this to try to understand the real risks and ways I may reduce them. My fear is that he will just tell me I stupid and give me the standard “I could kill myself” line. I can of course, not tell him about this and do it without any advice he may have. But, I’m the kind of person who likes data and facts to help me make better decisions.
My questions to the forum are: Shall I talk to my cardiologist about this? Those of you who have lived in the waiting room for a while and are physically active, have you limited your life while in the waiting room? How do you handle the limits placed on you?
This inactivity drives me crazy. I question if I am compromising my quality of life now to get a roll of the dice to maybe get better life in few years. At my age, I question the wisdom of putting off what you love doing.
Have any of you gone through this? If I were 50 or even 60, I could argue that putting off hiking mountains for a few years is wise for you can hike later in life. But , I feel I have only have a few more years of hiking in me and I’m wasting them sitting the waiting room doing nothing.
Thanks in advance for reading and providing you thoughts.
Fred
I’m a 72 year old male with aortic stenosis and a possible bicuspid aortic valve. I have been in monitor mode for almost three years. The last four echo tests have shown my stenosis progressing from mild to currently moderate or moderate/serious. Other than high blood pressure, which I control with meds, I’m fairly healthy and active for my age.
One of my sons lives in Colorado near Boulder. He hikes 14,000 foot mountains as a hobby and has a goal of hiking all 54 of them in CO. One of the things we share is the love of the mountains. In 2013 and 2014, I flew from my home in Western PA hike with him. In June of 2014, I summited my first 14,000 ft mountain, Mt Sherman. At that time, my stenosis was in the moderate category and I will admit that it was not easy. The shortness of breath is aggregated by the altitude and my stenosis. But, I was able to make it.
I started seeing a cardiologist in June of 2015 when my stenosis approached the mild category. She told me that my 14,000 ft mountain hiking days are over until I get my valve replaced. Last September, my son visited me in Western PA and we did a two day hike of 23 miles in the wilds of PA. I didn’t ask my doc for permission, I just did it. It was a relative mild hike as far as elevation gain, only about 1500 feet. But the 95 degree weather, a 35 pound backpack and my stenosis did require me to take it slow and rested often.
In December of last year as my echo test indicated I may be approaching the serious category. Due to concerns about the doc and test results, I sought another opinion and my new cardiologist says I am 12 – 24 months away from needing surgery. However, he also tells me I need to limit my physical activity: no 14,000 ft mountains, no hiking, put my chain saw on the shelf, and so on.
This summer my son plans on hiking his last (54[SUP]th[/SUP]) 14,000 foot mountain. He and I have talked for years about us hiking his last one together.
I’m considering trying to do it.
I would like to have a serious conversation with my cardiologist about this to try to understand the real risks and ways I may reduce them. My fear is that he will just tell me I stupid and give me the standard “I could kill myself” line. I can of course, not tell him about this and do it without any advice he may have. But, I’m the kind of person who likes data and facts to help me make better decisions.
My questions to the forum are: Shall I talk to my cardiologist about this? Those of you who have lived in the waiting room for a while and are physically active, have you limited your life while in the waiting room? How do you handle the limits placed on you?
This inactivity drives me crazy. I question if I am compromising my quality of life now to get a roll of the dice to maybe get better life in few years. At my age, I question the wisdom of putting off what you love doing.
Have any of you gone through this? If I were 50 or even 60, I could argue that putting off hiking mountains for a few years is wise for you can hike later in life. But , I feel I have only have a few more years of hiking in me and I’m wasting them sitting the waiting room doing nothing.
Thanks in advance for reading and providing you thoughts.
Fred