Hi there,
Thanks for the reactions. I doesn't feel alone anymore
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I want to share a part of my story whit you all.
I was born with heartproblems.
My aorta has a leak and my valve also had a (big) leak.
Get my first operation when I had the age of 9.
Then for a few years it went alright.
But the problem became a big problem while I was 20.
Then I get my second one.
This time they tought they could manice with a reconstuction.
After that it became a hospital time for me.
At the age of of 23 I get a ross-procedure.
And two years later i had another reconstruction (two times).
The last one was in 2001 at the age of 34.
Now my doctor desite that it was time for a mecanical valve and a new part of aorta.
You can understand that day change my hole life....
I get a new valve, a new part of aorta and a stroke.
I was in a coma for about a week.
My husband was desperate....he doesn't know what he can expact when I became awake.
Lucky me, I went awake.
But I can't use my right hand and my right knee !
I had many therapys and I had the feeling that I can't be any better.
It all happens for more than two years ago.
The first year was my therapy year, the second one was my acceptation year.
And now I've accepted my life....
Maybe i'm changed, but so what ?
I can be very angry, very happy...But I am who I am.
But the most importend thing what I've learned is that I can accepted the things and people who they are...
And after a difficult couple of years i can say : I'm lucky....I get a second chanche...
Thanks for reading my story.
Lots of love, Karin (the Netherlands)