Thanks for the posts, ideas and help.
My surgeon, Dr. Cohen, has told me he thinks the only surefire way of fixing it would be to replace it with a conduit containing a bioprosthesis (pig or bovine valve) or human homograft. He feels we should do everything possible to avoid that, given the risks associated with reoperation, and the potential for those types of valves to wear out, which at my age (45) would almost certainly mean a 3rd even riskier OHS with lots of scar tissue and at an older age.
Me and Dr. Cohen think the vibration is not confined to the mechanical valve alone but probably linked to the graft/conduit. His guess is that the dacron conduit is not nearly as elastic as the aorta, resulting in a more dramatic response when the valve closes. I think ALCapshaw2's comments particularly fit with the evolution of thinking about this issue, and I will pass them along as I believe mechanics and fluid dynamics is what this is all about.
Currently Dr. Cohen is working with a professor at Cal Tech designing two experiments. One is to compare St. Jude aortic valves with Valve conduits in an aortic simulator. The second will be to use a "vibrometer," to measure the "phenomenon" in patients such as me who have an artificial valve and artificial aorta, then measuring people who have only had the valve replaced.
A couple weeks ago I submitted the results of my VR.com vibration-pounding survey to Dr. Cohen. Here are some of the results: 11 of us took the survey. 10 out of 11 have artificial aortic grafts. 10 out of 11 have mechanical valves. 7 out of those 10 are St. Jude valves, 5 are the same valve-conduit design (I'm in that group). 1 person had their valve replaced in 2000 with no pounding-vibration, then had the artificial aorta installed in 2007 and the pounding issue started.
I'm still having heart/chest pain occasionally that usually lasts for a couple days. I don't know if this is typical 10 1/2 months after surgery but I doubt it. I have an appointment for hypnotherapy scheduled for early May. I will see how that goes. Still no job yet but I'm working on a temporary freelance job.