Thoughts
Thoughts
Good article, and good points everyone. I also had a murmur (or murmurs) from what eventually turned out to be three congenital defects and was told it was nothing. It has turned out to be quite a lot of something! I think, though, that since in past years there 1, weren't a lot of tests available for diagnosing congenital defects, and 2, most kids with them did not survive to adulthood, that doctors did not know that as adults these things would cause us big problems. In addition, there wasn't anything that could have been done for me in the 1950's or 60's so the best advice was just to keep on keeping on.
I do wish that doctors had followed me and advised me so that maybe I wouldn't have made some poor lifestyle choices, but those things weren't much done then for anybody. I hope that doctors are being better educated and trained these days, but unfortunately I doubt they are for the most part. It is up to the adults, either as parents or patients themselves, to do what we have to do to get proper care and to take good care of ourselves. I'm so glad the internet and groups like this are available as resources!
Joyce in Mississippi