Hi Ann,
Based on my research in the past year, you are correct in understanding that a valve area under 1.0 cm2 is classified as severe. However, I suspect you already know that there are other variables they also used to classify stenosis. (
http://www.echopedia.org/wiki/Classification_of_valve_stenosis_and_regurgitation)
I also found in my experience and research that there is a lot of room for variable results in all the tests: normal echo, TEE, Cath, and MRI. I never got a clear consistent answer as to how docs classify stenosis and what criteria they used to get one into surgery. I find it amazing that the criteria even varies depending on the country one is in and maybe even health insurance and facility.
Before my surgery, an echo test showed my valve area at .8, a Cath test said 1.4, a TEE said .9 - 1.1 and the surgeon who replaced it said 1.1. It was not any of these test results, nor my symptoms that caused my cardiologist to put me into surgery. It was during a normal checkup and a stress test where the EKG results showed heart rhythm so wacky it had him so concerned he won't let me even go home to prepare for surgery.
I'm not sure how one deals with the inconsistencies of tests results other than asking questions. I did a fairly good job of asking questions, but the answers were still inconsistent and I was never fully comfortable with the results and conclusions. The real question I wanted answered is: can you fix my problem is before it kills me?
I relate to your frustration with having to trust others to determine what course of action is appropriate for you. It's not their life, but yours that impacted.
I wish you the best and recommend you ask questions until you are satisfied.