I agree with RossGurlie. The Ross is awesome. I was an ideal candidate and have had zero complications in 3+ years. If it wasn't for the scar, I would never know that I had surgery. I am fully active and exercising.
At the time of my surgery, I had two little kids and a third on the way. My aortic valve failed and begun shooting clots leading to central retinal artery obstruction and partial blindness in one eye.
I spent three days in the hospital from the ER to the OR undergoing diagnostic ultrasounds. I really didn't have alot of time to research different valve types. My surgeon gave me the options of mechanical, animal or Ross. I knew that animal did not have a great reputation for longevity and I had watched my mother struggle with the longterm effects of coumadin and insulin for her valve replacement (St. Jude valve followed by adult onset diabetes). I didnt want to go through the restrictions of a lifetime sentence to blood thinners and the possibility that I would also develop diabetes (family history). So, I chose the Ross.
The week after surgery was pain due to the sternum, the pain killers and the after effects of anesthesia. After a couple weeks I became comfortable and a little more clear headed (my family still disputes this). I was able to take longer and longer walks and settle back into a normal routine.
Recovery is what you make of it. It is going to hurt. It is going to be your full time job for the weeks after surgery. But you have to try to return to normal as soon as possible. You will need to find the balance between working to get better and rest/sleep. Naps are a great thing, but difficult with a broken sternum. Find what works for you and push through it.
It really is an adventure.