I ended up tossing aside the list of questions I had for my surgeon --- he wasn't in the mood to answer any of them. My appt was at 8 in the morning and I didn't get in to see him until 4:00. I know he had to be dragging, but we got off on the wrong foot. I went in with a grateful attitude and didn't expect an apology however when he mentioned that he tried to see me at 3:00, (the beeper his staff had given me didn't go off,) he still appeared agitated with me... His hands were going to be holding my heart the following day so I found it quite easy to accept this turn around of who should be agitated with whom...wasn't important.
Anyway so many questions were answered with the pre-op video as well as the huge notebook of info Cleveland gave me...so I didn't bother him with those.
I went into the appointment well informed and knew what I was talking about...I did a ton of research beforehand....The most important questions I had for him were....
explanation of what all the surgery entailed.....
length of the surgery
success rate of this particular surgery...
chances of the membrane growing back....
how often did he do this particular surgery
risk level
repair vs replacement....how likely is it that a repair would lead to a replacement down the road.....told him my choice in replacement ..he became agitated again with me when I gave him my blessings and strong encouagement to replace if there was a seed of doubt that a repair would do the job for any length of time.
Most of the appt was spent with me watching him read my history. He had what appeared to be a 1000x magnification of my heart "live" which was fascinating to watch....must have kept it up there for my sister and my entertainment.
He gave me a quick 1 minute rundown of surgery and none of my other questions were attempted. I think most people have a more informative appt. Never saw the guy again but about 30 seconds in ICU...
Top dog in the lung and heart transplant department. Was told by numerous people he is ranked as America's #1 heart surgeon...but then I hear they all say that! Bottom line, I'm forever grateful to him.
Hope you appt goes well!
Debbi