If I had to do it over, I would ask how the pain is going to be managed before the breathing tube comes out. I tried to tell him that I really didn't want to be awake then, but they don't like that because they want to be sure you can breathe on your own before they remove the tube. He may not be responsible for this part of it, but may also know what they do. As the person who will see your daughter first, You should ask her how she's feeling, and have her blink or write answers. I only talked to my guy the on the phone the night before surgery. I really didn't have any questions for him, I assumed my surgeon would only work with people he trusted.