If pick pick your words with care could only be my phone message! It's a thought. I have a crazy sister who last night actually SNEERED at "my heart problem (AVR, radiation complications). I tried to make her aware this was no stunt to get "attention", that if I didn't have the surgery I'd really be dead in probably 2 years, that brought a derisive "Oh, sure"! When I first brought this shocking (to me) realization that I needed this surgery.... her contribution to the conversation was a literally, flip dismissive "Oh, everybody one of has those", next subject? This is a bummer, I'm sorry, you guys, but if you have a crazy in your life, when or if you get in the Waiting Room, leave them with God and RUN NOT WALK to the nearest exit. God please help us to get away from the really serious detrimental relationships! And Help those poor people. Amen