Our continuing dental gauntlet.........

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gijanet

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Just a quick update (quit laughing already) on our continuing dental saga........

We are now on our 4th ped dentist (grrrr! unless he tries to pawn us off on yet a fifth one.........geez! You'd think Katie's a leper judging from the way nobody wants to touch her!)! He is scheduled to tackle Katie's pulpectomy (sp??) and fillings (5 + now, but that's another long story in the big city) tomorrow (Wednesday) at Cook Children's.

We had pre-op today with the anesthesiologist..............can you believe it? For fillings!! We've battled with the insurance company, who will cover the facilities and anesthesiologist - well, THEIR share anyway, but will NOT cover a cardiologist being on call..............geez! Why are we doing this in the hospital to begin with??? Hmmmmm.........could it be heart-related possibly?? (Insert cuss word of choice here! I’ll not do it for you. Remember, I am being good lest I want a five year old repeating it!)
And, of course, they won't touch the dentist's charges (and our dental insurance is null and void in this case - no one on our provider list would do it - not any time this century anyway……….uhhhh, let’s see……….5 year old, mechanical valve, coumadin, history of HIT and arrythmias……..minimum of 5 cavities……………oh, yes! Why we DO have an opening for May 21st of 2008 for a consult!!! GRRRR!). Speaking of charges, the dentist was kind enough to give us a discounted estimate of $2K..................so who needed a new house anyway? (the dentist, I presume, or we are paying for his summer cottage at Cape Cod. JANET!!! PUT THOSE PLIARS DOWN NOW AND GET THAT THOUGHT RIGHT OUT OF YOUR DEMENTED HEAD!!!!) :D

Also battled with our ped card who wanted to stop Katie's coumadin and bridge her with Argatroban (with a minimum 5-7 day hospital stay to lower her INR and then raise it again) because of the HIT, so I had to send her the ADA's chart for dental procedures (thanks, Al!) that are safely performed while fully anticoagulated and a few other sites posted on vr.com, but we won that one, thanks to you, our valve family, and me. (Note to God here: I am NOT bragging on this one, merely stating fact. Please do not consider this yet another opportunity to try and teach me humility.) :eek:

And to top everything off, Trip has the flu and has been sick as a dog, poor thing. You'd think he had the plague cuz the rest of us are trying our darndest not to get it. I'm trying hard to be the warm, loving, sympathetic mother that y'all KNOW me to be, but somehow the gas mask, chemical suit and rubber gloves that I don to enter his room, and my incessant fumigating him and anything he touches with lysol, tend to detract from that loving aura just a tad........I guess I really could stop asking him to hold his breath the entire time I'm in his room..........heehee! :D

(BTW, Katie and I had OUR flu shots, but Trip and Don didn't due to the shortage the first go round...........as for the second round, well, they spent their rountuit coins and just never quite got round to it. Bet Trip doesn't balk at the shot next year!) Anyway, with our luck, Katie will be running a fever tomorrow morning (she already started with the runny nose today)..............pray it's not so and that everything's a go................

Thanks for letting me whine. Sorry I've been out of touch lately, but it is hard to come update and read everyone's posts when all I really feel like doing is putting my head through a brick wall, or repeatedly trying to anyway...............ya know the old saying? If at first you don't succeed, WHAM! WHAM again!
(This brick wall syndrome can be replicated, btw, through any conversation with any insurance representative on any given day. Take the one I had a couple of years ago, for example.

ME: “I’m calling to check on my daughter’s pre-authorization for out of state open heart surgery.”
Rep: “Will this be a major surgery or a minor one?”
ME (somewhat stunned upon hearing this revelation): “You mean we have a choice? Why we want the minor open heart surgery, of course!”
Rep (Not amused): “Well, we have to ask in any elective surgery. [Elective???] Will this be inpatient or outpatient?”
ME (again, truly amazed at my discourse with this demigod of medical knowledge): “Why, actually, we were hoping to find a ped heart surgeon with a drive-through window service. Could you help us out here?”

WHAM! WHAM! WHAM!) :D

Hopefully, life will begin to resume some facade of "normal" after this ordeal (geez! I can't even keep a straight face typing that one.............MY Life! Normal? Hahahahaha!) :D

Any prayers you want to send our way for smooth sailing tomorrow (or for most of y'all, today) would be greatly appreciated. :) Thanks as always for your continuing love and support. Gotta be up at 4 AM as we're first case. Hugs. J.
 
Just read this on Katie's care page ( my heart thumps every time I get notice of an update on Katie's care page) and our prayers are with you all as usual. Hope all goes well today, that Trip feels better soon and the rest of you escape the flu, and will anxiously await an update. Hugs and kisses to you all.
 
Add me to the list of well wishers.

If no dentist on your provider list would do the work, then it would seem that the insurance company would cover the dentist you do find as in-network. I would imagine you might get some satisfaction with that tactic - if you're willing to spend 24 hours a day for the next 5 years on the phone with the insurance company.
 
Janet-- Just to give you the tiniest glimpse of light at the end of this tunnel:

My son had two pulpectomies (a "baby root canal"), one extraction and some ridiculously high number of fillings in his primary teeth. We found the pediatric practice in our area at the time to be so "comforting" it was scary. ("welcome to the "spaceship" dentist dear...come through this spaceage sliding door to the space capsule...no, Mom, you stay behind, your dear one will do better without you [Bullpoop, I'm coming with!]...here, dear, lay back on one of these several brightly colored "space" chairs and watch your favorite movie or play video games...here, honey, let's put on your magic ring (pulse oximeter)...I'm gonna give you an elephant nose...it's not gonna HURT a bit, but if it does HURT, just raise your little hand and the dentist will stop for a nanosecond to tell you it doesn't hurt and then start drilling again...") After much agonizing and a heart-to-heart with my own dentist, we switched to my dentist, who had my son hop into the chair, invited him to play with the buttons on the chair for a couple minutes, and then simply explained to my son what he was going to do...including telling him that it would hurt a little at first like a hard pinch right here on the gum...giving him the real deal...and my son did fine thereafter.

But, the light at the end of the tunnel...my son, at 13, has zero fillings/ cavities in his permanent teeth! Until he was seven I faithfully brushed my son's teeth (oh, I missed a handful of late nights when he was asleep and I didn't wake him), and now that he's on his own brushing them once a day MAYBE...no cavities! Go figure! Karma, maybe?

Good luck, Janet. May it cease to be an ordeal soon!
 
Janet!
First of all, before I even read your post, I removed all drinks from computer area and went to the ladies room.....

Jeez, all the trauma and drama just to get our kids teeth taken care of. I have been there many times. And to think, Matt's dentist was once a PC!

Just a quick bug in your ear, Matt HAD to stop taking his coumadin before pulpectomies/root canals. They actually just recently started cleaning his teeth without stopping the coumadin.

As always we will keep Miss Katie in our prayers.
 
Aye, Janet...don't even know what to say....

While I know you are extremely frustrated with this situation, I'm encouraged that you seem to be keeping your sense of humor and wits about you ... well, at least that sense of humor ;). Just kidding ;).

Thoughts/prayers coming your way, of course.



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"I can?t take anymore" ... 3rd Eye Blind ... 'How's It Going To Be'
 
Janet, you crack me up with the renditions of your ordeals :D

Hey, what if one of the in-network dentists gave you a referal to the out of network dentist you picked? Too late?

I guess I won't complain about the $140 vet bill to fix the mangled toenail suffered by my 2 yr old puppy while chasing, catching, and killing the squirrel that fell down the chimney and got loose in the house. :D :D :D

'AL Capshaw'
 
I'm so sorry this is so *&%^ hard!

I'm so sorry this is so *&%^ hard!

I can't imagine how frustrating it would be to have to deal with all the "no's" that it sounds like you do! I also find it hard to believe that 2K is a discount!!! Hang in there! We are praying for you!

Kristi
mitral repair 11/30/05
 
Dear janet...

I can feel your frustrations :( ....


Its just not fair that you and lil Katie should have to jump thru circus-rings just to fix a few teeth...and the 2K bill :eek: ...OMG!

Sorry I dont have any easy answers or sloutions

empathy and sympathy and cyber-hugs I am good at !:D

as per usual I will pray extra for lil Katie and her teeth

maybe we need the tooth-fairy to help out!:D

Dont lose your sense of humour Janet...you may need it again ;)
 
Good news from Katie's carepage

Good news from Katie's carepage

So happy to read this:


Sorry to keep you wondering about today's outcome, but praise God! It was smooth sailing!!!! 8 cavities, all drilled, filled, and capped, and one poopectomy......oh, sorry, that's what I need as I am thoroughly pooped. Had our pulpectomy. Pretty bad shape, but the dentist, who turned out to be a real gem, by the way (he was soooo wonderful and compassionate - reminded me a lot of Dr. Bove - I might not even mind too much paying his two grand, especially if I get to join him at that summer cottage at Cape Cod...........Just kidding, REALLY I am!)was able to save the tooth. Dr. R. was a doll and stopped by to check on us, even though she wasn't technically covered by insurance.......now if I get a bill from her, I might just have to take the doll part back.........

Katie, of course, was a little bear waking up from the anesthesia. Finally released this afternoon. Bleeding's not bad at all. Still doing a week of amoxicillin to be safe. She slept fitfully much of the day. Course she woke up a while ago, bright eyed and bushy tailed, wanting to know if this was still the day she had had her teeth fixed. I think I mumbled that, YESSSSS! This was STILLLLL the same, long, never-ending day......."

Showed Katie her silver caps and she is thrilled with her new gansta look. Now I'm just afraid that she is going to want a diamond chip implanted in her front tooth next. Then the tattoos and body piercings...........sigh! We've created a monster.

But I'll take her in any way, shape, or form.

Trip's feeling better, too, finally - just as the rest of us are all getting the drip pan noses, so I think he will be shipped off to school tomorrow. Course he did forget to mention that he had an 800 word essay due today..............argh! After forcing him to write what will probably turn out to be the worst 7th grade essay ever (I proofread it for him with both eyes shut! "Yeah, honey, sounds great!" Just to give you a taste, here are three classic lines from his essay:

"If you ever wish to visit these Texas towns, they will always be there. Unless they get hit by a meteor. The towns might even be torn apart by an earthquake, but the history is still there!"

And yes, I let that ride, fragmented meteor and all........I know. I am so bad, but I am just too tired. At least it is an original thought. And who knows? We could have an earthquake in Texas. It could happen!)

I just now got him to bed (I'm tempted to run in and lysol him again just for revenge purposes.......heehee!)

Anyway, thank you so much for the prayers. They worked. AMEN! If we ever have to go through this again, my vote is for dentures. heehee!

Now I am going to go drag my pooped butt to bed and hope I can drag it back out in time for work tomorrow. Much love and many hugs. J.


79 January 25, 2006 at 12:22 AM CST
 
So little Gangsta Katie's got a new grill!:D Glad everything went well.
 
I sent you a message via Katie's Care page, but the condensed version goes like this: Thank goodness it's over!;) ;) ;) ;) :) :)
 
Yay, Katie! What a relief from what an ordeal! Now how about a break for you two from anything remotely medical or dental? So glad it all turned out well. Have been thinking about you guys.
 
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