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sylviayasgur

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hi all!
i have missed everyone here so much. i've been so busy doing so many things and our youngest daughter is about to start "college shopping" so, more busy times_ but good ones!

about a year ago i decided to take both our daugters to be checked by a cardio (since joey's bicuspid was most likely congenital). our eldest got a perfectly clean bill of health.
our youngest, who is ultra fit and a strong dancer (up to 6 hours a day in summers and 3-4 hrs every day during the year), however, had an odd delay in her pulse from her arm to her leg. also, her b.p. was lower in her leg.
despite the fact that she is in such great shape, the cardio suggested we get her checked before she leaves for college in a few years. he mentioned coarctation of the aorta, but said that the delay and the b.p. were the ONLY symptoms she has and that if it should turn out to be this, it would be so mild that most likely nothing would ever need to be done about it.

the summer after this finding, this wonderful cardio calls me up again and says he wants to make sure his findings were right, would i please schedule some time for him to check her again. we do, he does, and he finds the same things.
he was not alarmed and said we'd keep an eye on it.
a week later, i get a call from him telling me that although he really doubts it is anything more than trivial, if that, he would like to KNOW what this discrepancy is all about. he gives me a name of a cardio at columbia presbyterian who is liaison between mri's and pediatric cardiology.

we saw dr. beth printz last week and she gave jamie a thorough echo (from all sides!!!!!). after finding that there is no narrowing, she said "it's so nice to listen to a healthy heart"_ hence no need for an mri....
her cardio will just check her annually.

i have been a nervous wreck about this. at one point during the echo jamie looked at me and said that she knew i was nervous because i was as red as a cherry (i get that way when i'm nervous).
i feel so blessed.
those of you who have children with heart issues, i truly could almost feel what it's like to be in your shoes...
thank you all for always being there for me.
i'm glad to see that all of you are doing well.
-sylvia
 
Sylvia,
A hard earned sigh of relief for you and your family! So glad to hear everything looks good.
Sue
 
Oh Sylvia-

What a stressful time for your family. I'm so very glad that everything checked out well. And I'm especially glad that your daughter has a cardiologist who was human enough to keep pursuing your daughter's symptoms. He sounds like he's really into his profession and cares deeply.

You must be so relieved.

Thank God.
 
Sylvia,
I'm SO glad that everything checked out fine. I think all of us with children fear having passed on our problems. My daughter is tall and thin - I always wonder whether she will present with mitral valve prolaps. My Mom had it. I had, of course. I encourage her to stay physically active, but to not over-look anything that feels out of the ordinary.

Once again, I'm really happy for your daughter's outcome.
 
Hey Sylvia,
So glad to hear everything is OK with you family. I can understand the stress you all have been under. It is also nice to see your posts again.

Take Care
 
Sylvia,
Glad that your daughter is OK. Know that was a scary time for you.

I will always remember the day that our primary care physician listened to our 10 year old daughter's heart and immediately had his nurse called the pediatric cardiologist. Within 2 hours, we were at the cardio's office. Fortunately, the cardio was able to reassure us that yes, she had mitral valve prolapse, but he didn?t need to see her again for 3 months. Whew! She didn't need surgery until age 26.
 
Hi Sylvia!
It is great to hear the good news about your daughter. I can truely relate to how you have been feeling. My oldest daughter, who is 5 yrs old, has a very very mild congenital heart defect. She gets checked by her cardio every 2 years, but has no restrictions what so ever. It was wonderful to hear that there are cardios out there who truely follow-up with their patients. This cardio sounds like a keeper.

Take Care!
Gail
 
Sylvia - Welcome Back!

I know the feeling of kids with "possible" medical complications. It is far more worrisome than when one of us, the parents, have something. Kids have so much ahead of them, especially at this time of their lives. We just finished the "college shopping" phase at our house, and I wouldn't want to do it with medical issues dangling overhead. (We got all of my daughter's stuff out of the way first, fortunately.)

Good to hear from you, especially on a now-positive note. Hi to Joey, too!
 
Hi Sylvia -

You and I have talked before about our children. I thought I'd have an eighteen year project when I was first pregnant! There's a very pretty song on country radio right now about "There goes my life..." And what a great life children bring, right?!

Glad all is well with all of yours! Best wishes and welcome back, ~Susan
 
Sylvia,

I know what it's like. I had numerous echos when I was pregnant with my son. We were concerned about the inheritance factor since I inherited from my dad. Fortunately, he was released from cardiac care when he was 5. I would go through the surgery 10 times if I could spare my son. That's just being a parent. I'm glad your news came out so well!

Heather
 
Sylvia,

I am glad everything turned out okay with your daughters. It is so nice to see you back on the board.

My mother took me to several cardiac clinics in Iowa City, Iowa, to have my heart checked when I was a teenager - dutifully every year. I missed her so much while I was going through my surgery, but couldn't help thinking of how hard it would have been on her to see her child go through that. My mother died of cancer three years ago now - seems like just yesterday.

I don't have children of my own, but know the special bond mothers and daughters have, because of the relationship I had with my mother. There is NO ONE who can take the place of your mother. :)

Christina L.
 
Sylvia,
I was holding my breathe reading your post. I was so relieved to get to the end and find out that everything was OK with you daughter. It is nice to know that your cardiologist was so conscienous in the care he gave .
Kathy H
 
I am sorry that you both had to go through all that stress! I am glad all turned out great.
 
Sylvia, I am so happy for all of you. Your family sounds so full of life and you certainly don't want that to change at all. After this good news, you will all relax and get back to normal. I know how mothers worry.............
 
GREAT NEWS

GREAT NEWS

SYLVIA & JOEY

WONDERFUL NEWS.....I TOO, WAS HOPING FOR THE BEST WHILE READING YOUR POST....NOW, GET ON WITH THE BUSINESS OF LIFE.....NO MORE WORRIES.....CONGRATS!...:D
 
Hi Syl

I'm so happy for you and your family---now relax and do something tres nice for YOU!!!!

We've missed you.

Evelyn
 
hi all!
when i read all your responses to my post, i realize how much i've missed being here.
you are such a supportive, caring and just plain old wonderful group of people. i could not have handpicked nicer friends.
thank you all for your words, your wisdom and knowledge and for always being there.
i will be so upset when the reunion rolls around and joey and i won't be there this year. i'll miss everyone.
thanks again and be well, sylvia
 
Our wonderful children

Our wonderful children

Sylvia,

I almost cried reading your post!! What a relief to get to the end and hear she?s okay. Whew! I was holding my breath for you... I so, so understand how you were feeling through that whole process.

I hope to see you and Joey in Golden! :) It's going to be so much fun and you can meet my Ryan. I think he?ll at least come over for a dinner or two. He's at CSU. Him and Eric both wanted to go there, so we didn't have to do a lot of college shopping. Sending them off to college was stressful enough as it was.

Be well, Sylvia!! :)
 
Sylvia,

I am so glad your daughter is alright. It seems that when something is going on with one of our kids nothing else seems to matter. My oldest son, Jon and his wife are expecting their first baby in a few weeks (after almost giving up hope). Our whole family is caught up in the joy this brings. We don't know if it is a boy or girl but it doesn't matter.

So sorrow and worry can certainly turn to joy, can't it! :)
 
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