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tobagotwo

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While crossing from Woods Hole to Martha's Vineyard on Thursday morning, I used my cell phone to check in on a friend of mine who was having valve surgery last week.

His name is Frank, and he's a very good man. He helped me deal with my own upcoming surgery some years ago, not in small part by his pragmatic and positive outlook on the subject.

His problems were far more difficult than mine. The root where his mechanical aortic valve was implanted was growing weak from years of steady thumping. He also had a very thin lining between the heart chambers, and was tracking a slowly growing aortic aneurism.

He underwent surgery at Montefiore hospital in the Bronx, NY, with a trusted surgeon who had worked on him before. The surgery was to replace part of the aorta and the valve, a combination common enough to be bought off the shelf. Probably, he had a patch done as well, to shore up the chamber lining. He weathered the surgery very well, and the surgeon was excited at the prospects for a quicker-than-expected recovery.

Shortly after he was taken off the pump, somewhere a blood clot slipped free. He suffered a massive stroke immediately. This morning, he is still alive, but now has no ability to move the left side of his body. The next few days will tell much of the story for his immediate future. I hope it goes better for him this week.

We wish the best for all of our friends and acquaintances through this site. Every once in a while, someone falls to a statistic, and we're reminded just how serious this business is, how precious is the good result, how easy for things not to go the way that we wish.

A moment here, for Frank's travails. A brief pause for all of those who leave something of their life behind on this journey.

We wished you better.
 
tobagotwo said:
we're reminded just how serious this business is, how precious is the good result, how easy for things not to go the way that we wish. QUOTE]

Perfectly said...The best to your friend.
 
I'm sorry to hear that it's happened. We all know that risk exists and pray that we don't have it happen, but it does happen. I had one with my first surgery. I thank God to this day that I don't have any lasting impairment from it. It was a long hard road back, but I won. Hopefully your friend will also.
 
That's a tough break. I hope things improve for your friend.

Sending positive thoughts.....
Anna : )
 
Bob,
Please let us know when you find out more information on your friends. In the meantime he will be in my prayers.

We all try to stay so positive here, for our new members and for ourselves. But we do get reminders that statistics are there for a reason - things do happen. Fortunately most of us are on the good side of the statistics.
 
Hey Bob,
Sorry to hear about your friend Frank. Keep us posted.
Frank will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Take Care
 
Frank will be added to our prayers......

Frank will be added to our prayers......

You sound like you need a (((hug))). I am so sorry to hear about your friend Frank; he is suffering through one of my greatest fears for Katie. Every time we undergo surgery, I feel as though we are pushing our luck for stroke and/or survival. Frank will definitely be added to our prayer list for a full recovery, and do please keep us posted.
 
Very sorry to read this. Please tell Frank that there are about a thousand "friends" rooting for him and his family from VR.COM.
 
Karlynn said:
We all try to stay so positive here, for our new members and for ourselves. But we do get reminders that statistics are there for a reason - things do happen. Fortunately most of us are on the good side of the statistics.

Those who are on the bad side of the statistics can't post....


Bob,
Best wishes, good thoughts and prayers for your friend Frank. I've known some who have recovered remarkably from a major stroke - but only time can tell.
 
I am sorry to learn of this, I will keep your friend in my prayers. For so many of us this type of surgery is well tolerated and we do fine. Then we are reminded from time to time of just how serious this all can be because someone dies or suffers permant injury.
 
Bob, Sorry to hear about your friend's stroke. I hope that he will do well and get though this difficult journey. It really makes you appreciate what we have been though. I think that most of us just try not to think about the complications that can happen. I know that is how I dealt with my surgery. I will keep your friend in my prayers. Keep us posted on how he is doing, and let him know we are all pulling for him.
Kathy H
 
The news from Frank's wife is that he's still paralyzed on his left side.

They also say he can't speak, but not whether he has a breathing tube. I say that because they also indicated he was restrained, and they said it was to keep him from taking out tubes. So I'm not sure why it is that he can't speak.

He is awake and cognizant of people, can nod his head "yes" and shake it "no," and squeeze a hand (with his right). From what I can glean, his mental acuity doesn't seem diminished.

He is still in the ICU, but they are looking at a rehabilitation center to move him into from the hospital.

I guess now it looks like whatever he gets back will take some serious time. Ross has been there, as have others here.

Thank you all for your kind comments, prayers, and thoughts for Frank.

Best wishes,
 
There are stories all the time about people who make the most incredible recoveries from strokes and other serious injuries. I really hope your friend will eventually be able to add his story to the list.

My continuing best wishes...
Anna : )
 
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