Hi
Hello All! I am a 42 year old female with a bicuspid aortic valve that I was told needs to be replaced as soon as possible with a mechanical valve....
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As a person who understands that I am doing this save my life, the thought of having a procedure MUCH younger than I was prepared for is over-whelming.
I'm sorry to hear you are part of our group. However the good news is you will be around to be part of our group in years to come.
The surgery
will save your life.
I am 48, and compared to just a few short decades ago (like when I was kid having my first surgery) such things are possible. If my mother had required such surgery when I was a toddler then I would never have had her in my life for as long as I did.
Take comfort that you are having this surgery at the earliest time, for that will make the recovery easier and more likely to be strong. Having this surgery at an older time will make things tougher. While I was in hospital with my recent post surgical issue I spoke with the father of a close friend of mine. He came to the hospital to visit me to discuss how his life went when he had OHS and got a staph infection. He took 10 years to recover and now has no sternum bone.
So be sure that earlier is better.
Also, mechanical has many advantages over tissue, not the least of which is longevity of the valve, meaning you will not need re-operation. This forum is filled with people who seem to consider re-operation as straight forward, because the operations are so successful. This is most unwise, as every operation brings with it additional risks. To be sure in all likelihood you will not be in the undesirable set of stats, but if you are you will have to live with that.
I was given a homograph on my second surgery, and a mechanical on my third. I was pathologically afraid of warfarin before my surgery and felt quite depressed after the operation.
However my mind was changed when:
- I learned how easy it was to deal with
- I learned how debilitating post surgical complications can be
I can't imagine how over-whelming it must be for you, as I have had this problem since I was a youth. I have had 3 surgeries in all and am often a bit bemused by the reactions of those around me to the surgeries.
They say "what would you do to stay alive", often we never know the answers to these questions, but I put it to you that you have a wonderful opportunity before you.
You now have the chance to experience things which the masses will never undergo. You will have the opportunity to enhance your spirit and discover your inner strengths.
It will not be an easy road, but you will be stronger on the other side. Take it from one who has been through a lot.
all the best, and don't be afraid to ask (as long as you are willing to listen to the answers).