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Gnusgal

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Last night I was talking to my mother, updating her on the goings on in my life and whatnot. Then she told me that she was starting (about two weeks ago) to have symptoms: feet and hands swelling, shortness of breath, coughing, etc. Which to us equals congestive heart failure. My mother never would have even thought this if it hadn't been for raising me all these years. However, she did and went to the doctor about it.

Now here's the deal. She has had problems with her thyroid for years, and four years ago had surgery to remove the "bad" parts of it. Turned out that it was all bad and they had to remove it completely. So she now depends on meds to do all the little things the thyroid does. After an initial struggle she'd gotten everything pretty well regulated, then about 4 months ago or so her levels dropped severely. So severely the PA asked her if she was still taking her thyroid meds! So now she's playing the regulating game again.

When she added up all the symptoms and spelled CHF, she went to see her doc. She said all these symptoms could be related to the thyroid. She took a good hard listen to her heart, though, just to help ease my mom's mind (she's very agressive with her and my care). Well, after listening for awhile she detected a very slight murmur. So to "proove" it's not her heart, she's being sent to have an echo on Friday. We won't know the results until some time next week (I hate the waiting game!).

I know my mom is worried about it because she's a champion worrier, second only to my grandmother. I'm worried too. I don't like being on this end of a situation like this. As much as I hate that I have heart problems, I'd much rather be the patient than the one worrying about a loved one. It feels too helpless. Especially since we live five hours away from each other. I know my mom has gone through this with me more than her fair share, but I still don't like it.

Any prayers sent her way would be greatly appreciated. Thanks,
 
I wish I could say don't worry, but I can't do that myself.
I will certainly keep you both in thought and prayer. Gods kept me around for some reason, and I think it's to help others and ease their burdens when possible. I'm not good for much else and it frustrates the tar out of me.

Hang in there and keep us updated as things progress.

Ross
 
Hi Niki and Ross......Yes, I will put your mom in my thoughts and prayers....

Rossman, never forget that God kept you around for many reasons. You are a support to everyone on this list.....and the resident "screwball" I might add....Your humor and wit helps keep major issues light and we remember how important it is to smile.....because of you!!! Don't ever underestimate your worth, my friend. This list would absolutely be lost without you.......
BTW, care to buy shares of stock??????

Evelyn
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EVELYN AND TYCE
 
I find that by helping others and humor keeps my mind off of my own troubles and makes me feel better.

Buy shares of stock! Are you completely out of your mind? The ones I have are all losing big time. I was hoping to sell and pay off my huge dentist bill, but that isn't happening now. I'll contemplate that "Buy" decision when the market gets closer to 10,000 again. You never did mention the product. Hmmmm :DYou Need To Hear This!
 
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Got the results

Got the results

My mother's echo showed that whatever is going on isn't related to her heart. Thank goodness. Now if they could just figure out what it IS related to... Apparently her bloodwork showed an infection, and she is now on antibiotics, but she hasn't begun to feel any better. But hopefully the antibiotics will kick in soon and she'll feel back to normal. Thanks again for all the prayers!
 
Niki,
I really sympathize with your family's situation. My son and I both went through major medical debacles over this past year, and it is pretty hard to bear. I'm sending you a bundle of hugs during this tough time, and I hope they can figure out your mom's situation soon; uncertainty is really hard.

Best,
John
 
Evelyn

Evelyn

I had an aunt that did the same thing, not getting herself checked till things got a bit serious. I think it is when they are so busy worring about others, they tend to let themselves go till we say something about their health. My own mother was very bad bout going to doctor, she had RA. She wound up in the hospital twice, then a nursing home. She had RA unduced Lukeumia and a brain tumor, from which took her life. But we must take care with our parents, that they try to get care when needed. You are a godd person to care so much. Glad you mother is better. Take care.

Caroline
09-13-01
Aortic valve replacement
St. Jude's valve
 
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