MurmurSinceForever
Active member
Hello, I have been reading here, off and on, for 5 years and I am finally ready to introduce myself. I have had a murmur since, well if not forever, at least for as long as I can remember. It was never a big deal until I needed a simple day surgery procedure and the anaesthesiologist said I should get it looked at. So I did - probable bicuspid aortic valve and stenosis, monitored for 5 years until September when I failed a stress test and was told it was time for replacement.
I don't have many questions because you are all so gracious to provide such detailed information and right now I am facing the decision that I know is all mine to make - tissue or mechanical. My surgery is scheduled for Nov 25th and my surgeon said he needs to know before I get put to sleep.
I have read everything here on the topic and I appreciate what everyone has to say, and it's still difficult to decide...as everyone here knows. I hear ya, that life on Coumadin is no big deal, but will it be a big deal for me? I hear ya, that facing another surgery in 7-10-15 years is unthinkable, but is it worse than those same years on Coumadin...for me? I am female, 50 y.o. and am quite concerned about the impact of being on blood thinners for the next decade specifically. My biggest concerns are its impact on my menstrual cycle, and diagnostic procedures/biopsies (family history of colon polyps, melanoma, and breast cancer). My current thinking is tissue this time and mechanical next time, which seems reasonable to me, except I can't stop thinking that I will wake up from surgery and say I can't take another one of those!
So if I could ask one member one question..Mrs. Bray - you seemed to have had the same concerns presurgery as I do now. If it’s not too personal, could you tell me what made you go mechanical?
I promise not to second guess my decision once it’s made and to breathe, walk and stand up straight during recovery. I love those practical pieces of advice.
And thanks to everyone here who has shared their experiences. It all makes me feel like this is doable.
I don't have many questions because you are all so gracious to provide such detailed information and right now I am facing the decision that I know is all mine to make - tissue or mechanical. My surgery is scheduled for Nov 25th and my surgeon said he needs to know before I get put to sleep.
I have read everything here on the topic and I appreciate what everyone has to say, and it's still difficult to decide...as everyone here knows. I hear ya, that life on Coumadin is no big deal, but will it be a big deal for me? I hear ya, that facing another surgery in 7-10-15 years is unthinkable, but is it worse than those same years on Coumadin...for me? I am female, 50 y.o. and am quite concerned about the impact of being on blood thinners for the next decade specifically. My biggest concerns are its impact on my menstrual cycle, and diagnostic procedures/biopsies (family history of colon polyps, melanoma, and breast cancer). My current thinking is tissue this time and mechanical next time, which seems reasonable to me, except I can't stop thinking that I will wake up from surgery and say I can't take another one of those!
So if I could ask one member one question..Mrs. Bray - you seemed to have had the same concerns presurgery as I do now. If it’s not too personal, could you tell me what made you go mechanical?
I promise not to second guess my decision once it’s made and to breathe, walk and stand up straight during recovery. I love those practical pieces of advice.
And thanks to everyone here who has shared their experiences. It all makes me feel like this is doable.