Hi,
I know what your son is going through. I was very active my entire childhood and adolescence, but had to have an aortic valve replacement at the age of 17 during my senior year in high school. Like your son my first choice was a repair, followed by the Ross Procedure, and then by a tissue valve. I ended up having the Ross. I played tennis in college and continued to live an active life for six years until I needed to undergo a second aortic valve procedure because my Ross Proecure failed. I went with a tissue valve (homograft) for this past surgery which was this past December. Since that surgery, just six months ago. I am fully recovered. I am playing in tennis, table tennis, and softball leagues this summer I am going to Africa in three months to conduct research. I was terrified before both my surgeries, but in the end everything turned out well. I am more active than most non-valve patients I know and am doing everything with my life I want to. Feel free to have your son shoot me an e-mail if he is interested in talking. It is not the end of the world, but in most cases just one of those bumps in the road that infuse life with the uncertaintly that makes it so beautiful and exciting.
If I was your son I would go with either the Ross or a tissue valve. Being on coumadin at that age is not something that I would want. There is a time in life where you should not be limited and I think the late teens and early twenties are that time. Despite what some will say, no one knows how long that new tissue valves last in young people. They could end up being fairly effective and it is a risk I would consider worth taking. Second and third surgeries are becoming increasingly less risky, and are in my opinion less risky than an entire life spent on blood thinners. I have had a lot of changes of heart about this issue but having been through and recovered from two surgeries now, that is my opinion. Others will have different opinions, but in the end you must figure out what is best for your son. It is an individual choice.
Best,
Brad