matters of the heart, part 3 PRAYERS NEEDED

[temp69]

well my wife has def. moved out for good, or maybe not. I have been seeing other women, and some fun, some not so fun, just feels good to be desired.

Now, suddenly nothing else matters but my wife's health. she might have breast cancer, will find out soon. i want so much to care for her during this time and pray that she will allow my love back in her world.

please send some angels her way == some heavy duty good vibe prayers that the spot in her breast is benign. Thanks!!!!

 

[Ross]

Do you think maybe that is why she moved out? Trying to spare you agony? No need to answer these, just thoughts in my mind.

You got prayers going out from my end. Hang in there my friend.

 

[aussie girl]

Temp69, the way you are feeling is quite normal, love can't be turned on and off like a light switch and your feelings will be even stronger when you know your wife is facing such a hard time. I'm sure she will appreciate your support, be there for her at whatever level she needs. It may be an ear to listen to her or a shoulder to cry on but don't push to rekindle the relationship if that is meant to be it will happen naturally ( you never know this might just be the thing that makes her realise why she loved you in the first place). My prayers are being sent to both of you so you might both be strong during this time .....Mary

 

[WayneGM]

I'm very sorry to hear about your wife, and the whole situation. I'm sure it's quite the roller coaster emotionally. Best wishes to both of you.

 

[hensylee]

another shock in an already bad situation. I am so sorry for her. I pray that God works in mysterious ways to help. Blessins.......

 

[marky]

You're a good man Temp.. with a good heart.
Praying for total healing in ALL areas (marriage, wife physical and emotional etc.)

 

[Andrew'sMom]

how sad to read this thread. i haven't been on much lately, so i will have to go back & find parts 1 and 2 and catch up. I hope things work out for the best. Keeping you in my prayers.

 

[Nancy]

Well, always remember that at one time, both of you loved each other. There is no reason that you couldn't be there for her during this difficult time in her life. You may be angry at what happened, but basically, she is still a "friend" that you have had a special bond with.

You will find a way to comfort and help her, as your special friend.

Prayers for a B9 diagnosis.

 

[temp69]

Thanks For The Support!

Thanks For The Support!

It's always appreciated, wish I could shake your hands or give you hugs. I pray for a B9 diagnosis and she's such a wonderful, wonderful person she will have waves of support.

On the positive side, my daughter is going in for an audition tomorrow for a movie I wrote. A small beginning I hope, but she's excited and will learn that with any endeavor, hard work makes you "lucky."

My thoughts and prayers out to all who needs 'em, which is just about all of us!

 

[ruth]

Sorry to hear this Temp. Life sure is complicated.

Sending best wishes, vibes, prayers, etc to you & yours.

Ruth

 

[maka]

This is a certainly a hard time for both of you. She?s definitely going to need your support even if she does not say so. You may even find that she?ll withdraw from talking or sharing.....the thought of cancer is very, very frightening, trust me. I had breast cancer 28 years ago and it took me decades even to say the word. Just be there and make her feel wanted. It is so important
Prayers are with you

 

[hensylee]

Temp, will you keep us in the loop on how she gets along?

 

[Karlynn]

I'll pray for your wife and pray that you are given guidance in how you are best able to help.

 

[temp69]

well, the news is not good...

well, the news is not good...

she has a horrible history of cancer in her family and though she's got a malignant tumor, very small, she's been advised that a double mastectomy will be the best way to go. i cannot believe it. even though i'm pissed as hell at her and she behaved so badly even before she found out anything, i still feel she's going to be in a tough, tough position, a beautiful, beautiful woman who's been given strokes all her life for being a fox, and now this. I was hoping she'd race out and find some totally rich guy who would take care of her.

sigh. life is so.....weird sometimes. thanks for your kind thoughts. now pray she has a successful surgery and comes out looking and feeling fantastic.

damn, i love her, love all my ex's, though none are in texas.

temp

 

[hensylee]

wishing her the very best for full recovery.

uh - how many exes do you have?