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I posted on 7/19 on the eve of cath and surgery. First of all, thank you all for your thoughts, prayers, and well wishes. However, things did not go all that smooth. The surgery (new AV and Ascending Aorta) was performed on 7/21. The surgeon, Dr. Bavaria from U of P, was very pleased with his work - except for one minor thing: I had a brain stem stroke either during the operation or post op (seems to be some difference of opinion). He said a small piece of calcium from my excised valve found its way to my brain stem. I think it was the awful time I had retching and dry heaving coming out of anesthesia. In any event: I came out of the operation with double vision, difficulty breathing, speech problems, and last but certainly not least, the inability to swallow.

The breathing difficulty went away in about 3 days. The vision and speech are minor annoyances. The swallow was (and is) big problems. I was not able to eat, drink, or sleep for the first week after my surgery because I was chocking on my saliva. If I fell asleep, I'd wake up chocking. They tried to put feeding tubes down my nose (for about 3 days) but had no success (even though they left them in for a while to add to the torment). Not to be dramatic but I suffered greatly. In addition, and possibly because of my weakened condition, I went into A Fib 3 times (once for 16 hours). I was not on blood thinners (so many suture lines) so the threat of a clot was very possible. They had to put a giant octopus IV line in my neck while I was awake so they could start giving me amnio. I also had other chest pains that they could not figure out the source of (I wondered if things were "coming apart"). They finally put a feeding tube in my stomach on day eight - of course I went into A Fib while coming out of that anesthesia. After 16 days, I was 2 days from my last A Fib and figuring out how to sleep a couple hours a night so they sent me home on 200 mg of amnio a day. I immediately went into A Fib when I walked in the front door and had all sorts of irregular rhythms for 3 or 4 days. A cardio friend of mine suggested the dose was too low and said that if I doubled it, my rhythm problems would resolve. He was correct. I still "didn't feel right in the heart area and had minor events. On the evening of 8/13, I had very sharp pain back to front and BP shot up 50 points in 1 minute. I wound up in the emergency room. An EKG produced inverted T waves (bad) but all blood tests showed no heart attack. A CT scan indicated that all the sewing was "holding together" - thank God for small favors. An EKG 3 hours later was normal. So what exactly was that "event"? I've had similar "events" since but milder. Even though I still have some chest pains from time to time, I think I'm improving in the cardio area - I just said screw it and started walking. I'm now over a mile a day and beginning to see my heart rate come down from 85 into the seventies. I hope I'm out of the woods on the cardio stuff. I am continuing to walk more and more. I'm building my stamina and feel better each day. I have a cardiac event monitor I can hit record on if I feel something uncool.

I am now a week into therapy on the swallow problem (something called e-stim) and I think I'm making progress. I can't eat or drink yet (strictly on the feeding tube) but am beginning to be able to swallow my saliva a little better (from not at all). I have a barium swallow test tomorrow AM and hope for the best. I'll be getting a prism lense in a day or two that will actually enable me to see single instead of double, and I'm talking much better.

I am hopeful that I can have something resembling my old life back at some point down the road. I knew a few times that I was close to death but prayed and fought hard because I want so badly to live. I dearly want to continue life with my wife, 3 kids, 3 and 1/2 grandchildren, and many dear friends and extended family. I also want a second chance to "do it right". You know: treat everybody with dignity and respect even if we differ; be straight and honest; spread happiness and cheer the best I can.

I don't know what tomorrow will bring (sometimes I cringe waiting for the next shoe to drop) but I think I'm getting that chance. I'll keep you all posted. Again, thanks for all your prayers and well wishes.

Jack
 
Jack,

Happy to see you posting but so sorry about your problems. You have certainly had way too much happen in such a short time.

I will pray very hard that things improve rapidly. Hopefully being home will make things better and better and therapy will improve things as well.

Your story is not usual but things like this do happen. It just is hard when it happens to you. Please keep your faith and enjoy your family. I am sure you will get through this and back to a normal life.
 
A real fighter!

A real fighter!

That's what you've proved to be, Jack! Congratulations! I'm really sorry to hear that you've been through so much on the other side of the mountain, but I'm also relieved to know that you've managed to keep such a positive attitude. Hang in there and it will all be behind you before you know it. I'll definitely keep you in my prayers every night. Take care and please, do keep us posted on your recovery.
Débora from Brazil
 
Wow!

What a difficult journey you've had. You have great strength. It does sound like you are on track now, and things will heal in their own time. The most important thing is you are here and improving.

Take care, and God Bless.
 
Jack, I'm sorry to hear that you've had such a terrible time. But its good hear from you and thank goodness you were able post and keep us updated. My prayers go out to you and your family - you have such a positive attitude.. I have a friend that had a brain stem stroke and she has problems swallowing as well. She's lived with it for years. I think she's learned how to cope with it - and she also said cardiac rehab has been beneficial as well. Its amazing how the body can withstand so much and still has the will to go on.. You hang in there and well wishes are everywhere.. Lots of Hugs and Stay Strong and Keep the Faith..

Marilyn
 
Happy to see you made it back! I'm glad you've posted about your experience too. We tend to take for granted that everyone goes in, gets done and is back in fine shape in no time and that certainly is not always true! Some of us have had our trials and tribulations and these stories need to be told just as much as those that come off uneventful. It's reality.

With that being said, I too am sorry to hear you had such bad time. Many of the things you experienced rivaled those of my first surgery. It brings back some painful and heart wrenching memories, but I've overcome them for the most part. I'm hoping you will too. :)
 
Jack, I'm so sorry to hear what a rough time you had of it. I know stuff happens and I hate it when it does. Things like what you have gone through are exactly why I NEVER miss my coumadin. It wasn't a factor in your case but a reinforcer for those of us on it.

I sure hope your BA swallow goes well and that you soon can be eating again. Congratulations on beginning a walking program already. I am truly impressed! When you get back to more normal vision that will feel like a huge leap forward.

Please keep us updated as to your progress. It seems that cardiac wise you have had a rough go of it too! God bless...you go back on my prayer list!
 
most of us feel like we have gotten another chance to do it right - but you got a double handful. I am so glad you could come back to us with such a great outlook to carry you forward. Enjoy every day from here on - love that wonderful wife, those children and grands. And you will get it all back several-fold. Thank you for sharing. Blessins.........
 
So sorry to read that you had such a rough time if it, Jack, but I marvel at your strength and your ability to overcome it all. Keep up the good work, improve daily and keep us updated on your progress. You are an inspiration!
 
Keeping you in our prayers

Keeping you in our prayers

Jack I am so sorry you have had such a hard recovery. I am glad you are here to post and I will be praying as you continue your therapies and all.

We have been through the fire a bit on our end as well, but are just thankful to God that Andrew does not seem to have suffered nuerologiclly. I need to find that news artical and post it.

Once again I am sorry but glad you have made it.
 
Congratulations Jack! Not only on your survival but on your spirit. You are an inspiration. Barbara
 
best of luck

best of luck

Thank you for sharing your story, Jack. I am sorry that you have had such an incredibly difficult time. I wish you the best as you continue to pursue your complete recovery. I have a brother-in-law who had a major struggle after a simple fall left him paralyzed (he almost died on the operating table, too). His was an excruciatingly long ordeal with a month in critical care and 3 months in rehab away from his home and years of physical therapy. Your spirit resembles his. He is walking with a cane now (some) and has gone back to work in a different capacity. He showed amazing strength and perserverance. He has made it. I know you will too!!

:) Marguerite
 
Wow, Jack! I am very sorry you have had such a crummy experience. You certainly do seem to have gained wisdom in exchange for your troubles, though :eek: . I sincerely hope your swallowing and vision issues resolve themselves and that you continue to improve rapidly.

What's a half a grandkid look like? A pregnant belly? :D
 
Jack, thanks for sharing your experiences. I'm so very sorry you had to go through all that, but I'm so very happy to read the determination in our post. Best wishes and prayers for a good recovery.
 
Jack,

Sorry to hear about all the bad things you had to endure. Sounds from your post that you continue to be in good spirits. That attitude will help you get through this trial. We will continue to pray for your full recovery.

May God Bless,

Danny
 
You've been through the mill and back again. I don't think I'd ever want to see a doctor again, if I'd had your experiences. It must have been a very scary time, moderating down to a still scary time now.

You have taken control of the situation, and that is admirable. It would be easy to give in. Your persistence will be your salvation.

You are in my thoughts. Congratulations on your decision to get your life back.

Very best wishes,
 
Jack - Sorry to hear about your difficult experience. So many surgeries go well and once in a while one has some trouble. I think your wife, children and grandchildren will keep you improving. Take one step at a time and don't fret any new problems, you can get past anything. I like your pledge to "do it right". Please keep us informed about your swallowing progress.
Bill
 
Jack,
What a scary road you've walked while on your journey. You have faced your hardships with courage and determination, and I am sure those attributes will provide you a safe path back to your "old life."

My prayers and thoughts are with you.
God Bless.
Mary
 
Wow Jack! You sure have had more than your fair share of problems. Depite your problems, it sounds like you have a terrific attitude. Without being able to prove it, I think that is large part of the battle. I hope you now continue down the path of a much, much smoother recovery. You are most certainly in my prayers.

Karl
 

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