Hi Scottie,
MY surgeon told me that I could go back to work right after he discharged me from his care, which was 6 weeks after surgery. However, Since I was on disability, I took the full 12 weeks that I had available, and was so glad that I did.
My reasons for this are; After such a major surgery, many people go through periods of depression, the time off helped me work through it.
Also, when you do go back to work, people are sympathetic and supportive at first, but that goes away fast, and WHAM... before you know if you are faced with a full workload again, and work demands that build up.
In my opinion, (for my recovery), if I went back to work too soon, it would have been a mistake. I was still weak when I did go back 12 weeks after surgery.
You only live once, enjoy the fact that you got a chance to extend it, and take the time to enjoy it if you can.
Wishing you the best of holidays, and a Healthy New Year!
Rob