I would love to hear how you felt, physically and mentally, 3 - 6 months before your surgery and 3 - 6 months after.
Also, which valve type and would you choose it again.
The mitral valve was my problem. When I hit 50, my wife insisted that I start visiting the doctor once a year rather than every five years. At that visit, the my primary physician said "wow, you have a loud murmur that wasn't there before". A batter of echos and one visit to a cardiologist later and I was told that I had moderate regurgitation that would eventually become worse and require surgery. At the six month followup I was told that it had progressed to severe regurgitation and that I needed to have surgery within the next six months. At the time, I still wasn't really feeling any symptoms, so I pushed surgery off for four months. Those were a
long four months! The physical symptoms showed up more and more often, and by the end I found it difficult to walk and talk at the same time. But the mental side was even worse, since I obsessed over everything related to the surgery during that period. I don't know how many of the other symptoms I felt were actually caused by my valve issue versus my nerves. I wish I had found this site then, because when people say that the wait is the hardest part they are telling the truth!
I ended up flip flopping between the artificial and natural valves throughout that period, but the week of the surgery decided to go with tissue, if needed. Luckily, my surgeon was able to repair my valve.
I woke up in cardiac ICU breathing better than I had in months. I had very few bumps in the road during my recovery. Each week I felt better than the last, That soon that was replaced with month to month improvements, and eventually I got to the point where the surgery was a distant memory. One of the interesting things about this site is that there is a lot of turnover in active posters, since people get so busy enjoying life a year or so after surgery that they don't have much time to hang around here. I was guilty of this until a few weeks ago, when someone at work asked me a heart surgery question for one of their neighbors.
How has it changed your life?
The simple answer is that I'm still around to enjoy life, which the odds say wouldn't have been the case without surgery. Since surgery, I've seen my daughter graduate high school, my son graduate college, and before the end of the year I will have made the last college payments for the kids. But I'd also have to say that my outlook on life has changed, since I found that some of the things that used to be big deals before surgery really are pretty minor on the grand scale. A new lease on life can be a good thing!