you're talking about surgery before he is a teen, right?
you're talking about surgery before he is a teen, right?
I think we talked about this when you first joined so incase I'm reading this wrong, you are asking about if he need the valve in a few year right? if that Is the case, then the first thing I would find out ishow big of a valve they would be able to put in because if he is like alot of kids I know , chances are if he gets a valve young, he will out grow it and need to have it replaced anyway. if they think he will out grow it, unless I'm missing something, I don't know what the advantage of a mechanical would be.
I know just with Justin from the time he was 12 til he was 17, we put off replacing his conduit and getting a valve by ballon caths and stents, knowing the longer we could avoid having the replaced, the more time he had to get closer to his full height so he wouldn't need anything replaced until it wore out and not because he out grew it. so IF this is a valve that he probably will outgrow, as long as the valve last 10-15 years, I think you would be fine.
IF he waits until he is a teen to need the surgery, then the mechanical would probably be the way to go,, depending on how things change in the next decade
If you don't understand Curt"s condtion I would call the cards office and tell them you don't understand exactly what is going on and make them explain it to you. maybe even they can write everything down so you can go over it and ask any questions you have and don't be satified until you are comfortable that you understand.
I think I asked before , but sorry don't remeber, are you on any CHD support groups, either inperson or online? alot of the issues w/ the kids are different than adults and you can probably talk to other parents either going thru or have gone thru everything, Lyn
www.caringbridge.org/nj/justinw