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hello everyone.

I just joined little hearts .org and was told to come over here to see about this site. Its so wonderful to see that people can still be nice and wonderful to each other.
I guess I will introduce myself and tell my story.
My name is Barb and I am the proud mama of 3 wonderful children, Brandon ( 9), Russell (5) and my miss Emmie (3/17/02).
My oldest child Brandon has Aortic stenosis. He was premature, born at 33 weeks. Coming into this world at 3lbs, 10 oz and 15 inches long. I was a pretty young mama, just turning 22 three weeks before his birth. Brandon was in the hospital for 3 weeks before he came home and no one said anything about his heart to me the whole time. I brought a 4 lb baby home when he was a month old and took him to his 1st doc visit. His wonderful ped told me she didn't like the way his murmer sounded and I should take him to see a cardiologist. Soo off we went, this tiny baby, and his dad and I at 22 not knowing what in the world we were in for.
Now 9 years later ( and 2 more children) Tom and I have been back and forth to St. Chris hospital so many times we could get there w/ our eyes closed.Every 6 months we have to go for EKG's and ECHO's and for some reason we were living in a world were things would just stay like this forever and it would never get worse. In Nov that all changed. We were told that Brandons leaking back into his heart has gotten alot worse and that it was time to start thinking about doing something about it. They made Brandon take have a # of tests , some normal ones we were use to and some not. Another and then another EKG and same w/ the Echo's. then came the stress test, We went into it w/ good faith that all would be well. Brandon did pretty badly for a 9 year old child. Even he knew he didn't do all that well. We left feeling panic!
Now in a week my oldest baby is getting a cardiact cath and maybe the balloon ( I can't spell for the life of me so you will have to excuse me) Altho the doc's have told us they don't think the balloon will be able to get done because of all the back flow of blood already going back into his heart, So we have to prepare for vauvle replacement over the summer. But I am trying to take it day by day--min by min.
I also must tell you all Brandon is a VERY smart little boy.. LOL Not your typical9 year old. He recently took a IQ test and got around a 180 on it!!! ( Bragging proud mama):D So we have been very open and honest w/ him and he knows as much as us. he goes w/ us when we visit all the docs and surgens even if its just to talk because as he says "its his special heart we are talking about!"
I just figured I would share our story right now. But I really must go ... My little Emmie wants to play.. I hope to get to know you all
Barb
 
welcome aboard

welcome aboard

Barb,

You have a get deal on your shoulders. Welcome aboard. The people are great here and are very supportive. I just had a valve replaced in Dec. It was very scary for me and I know what your little one is going thru. Keep us updated and let us know how things are going. You all are in my prayers. Feel free to email me or send a private message. Best wishes.
 
Hi Barb-

Welcome to the site, and welcome Brandon and your "special heart".

Everyone here has "special hearts" or has a loved one with one. We all understand about these problems. And we have many folks here who had heart problems as small children and they will come along soon and welcome you too, I'm sure.

It's a great place and you'll love it here.

My husband had heart problems when he was a young teenager from rheumatic fever. He's 72 years old now. Today's medicine has many miracles. This site is full of them.
 
Hey "Braggin proud mama" - I would brag, too. You must be so proud of him and he sounds like a wonderful little one. You are surely going through a trying time right now but hang in here with us and we'll all go right to the door with you and wait til you come out with that little one. Love Ann
 
Welcome Barb!

I didn't have the same diagnosis, but I was that same little boy growing up (minus the 180 IQ :D ). When I was his age I wasn't nearly as scared of the doctors and fuss made about me as my parents were. I hope everything will turn out well with them attempting to open up the valve. If it turns out they need to replace the valve you may want to start researching the Ross Procedure. This procedure tends to work well with children because the "autograph" procedure allows the valve to grow with the child.

Keep us up to date with how things are going.
 
Barb and Brandon,
Welcome to our "family". Barb, I'm sure you'd rather yourself be going through all this, than have your baby boy :)D Yes, Brandon - baby boy, I have a 20 year old baby boy!) go through one minute of it. We are here to lean on. There are a lot of very knowledgable people on this site, so ask any questions you may have.

Make yourselves at home. You are in my prayers!
 
Welcome Barb!!

Welcome Barb!!

Hi Barb,

Welcome to this wonderful website with nothing but wonderful people, excellent companionship and support, and ultimately, the best place to be when you are having a rough time...I am sooo sorry that your son has these problems, It always gets to my heart when I hear of sick children. From your picture it seems as if your oldest son has a happy outlook given the circumstances, and I hope that it is helping you and your husband as well as helping your son. I just wanted to welcome you to this site and please know that I will be thinking of your son and hoping for nothing but the best for him...Take Care, Harrybaby666:D :D :D
 
<< I was that same little boy growing up (minus the 180 IQ ). When I was his age I wasn't nearly as scared of the doctors and fuss made about me as my parents were. >>

What Bryan said! So true.

I had surgeries at 5 and 6, not for heart, but for a serious congential vascular defect that was pretty rare (and the surgery apparently quite experimental). I remember quite a lot about the whole thing -- seeing lots of doctors and the hospital stays and the post-op stuff, but I was like Bryan -- not nearly as scared as I would have been as an adult. The doctors and nurses were very kind. The worst thing was having to lie on my back after the operations, and the best was they gave me lots of ice cream. No, it was not me but my poor mom who bore the brunt of it, just as you are doing, Barb.

My dad was stuck in Europe (long story .... ) both times and she had to get me on her own from her parents' home in Texas where she was staying to Children's Hospital in Cincinnati where there were doctors who did this surgery, and stay there where she had no family and knew nobody. But the surgeons who did the operations became very close to her, and later they became our life-long family friends.
 
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