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moonsmartie
I'm a 33 (nearly 34) year old woman from England. I found out recently that I've got a BAV (sorry - can't spell it..!)
They say things are ok now, and that I might have until I'm 50 before the gruesomeness begins, but I'm quite frightened at the moment.
I've spent a while browsing through your messages, and have been partly reassured, partly more terrified..! I notice that some people have said that they were also told they had 15 years, and then after 6 months quite suddenly started having symptoms and needed OHS. I have read the brave accounts of surgery, along with comments like 'the fear was worse than the actual experience'. I hope I can be so brave when the time comes.
I was told 'Well, perhaps when you're 50-ish we'll just replace it, and after that you'll be fine' - but it seems to me that it's not that straightforward.
If you choose a natural replacement, it only lasts 10-15 years, meaning OHS again, which seems more risky the second time, and also you get more memory loss as a side effect.
If you choose a mechanical one, you're on warfarin and can never get pregnant (I'm hoping to get pregnant as I've not had a child yet, due to circumstances beyond my control). Also the clicking would drive me insane, plus a lot of people seem to say that mechanical ones are rarely fitted 100% properly, so there are still symptoms.
So, overall, I am really more anxious than I was before. Am also (sorry, vain) anxious about the *huge* scar you seem to get - I don't know if UK doctors would do a horizontal one.
I don't want to worry my husband or family, so am hoping someone can say something reassuring.... help!!
Amanda
They say things are ok now, and that I might have until I'm 50 before the gruesomeness begins, but I'm quite frightened at the moment.
I've spent a while browsing through your messages, and have been partly reassured, partly more terrified..! I notice that some people have said that they were also told they had 15 years, and then after 6 months quite suddenly started having symptoms and needed OHS. I have read the brave accounts of surgery, along with comments like 'the fear was worse than the actual experience'. I hope I can be so brave when the time comes.
I was told 'Well, perhaps when you're 50-ish we'll just replace it, and after that you'll be fine' - but it seems to me that it's not that straightforward.
If you choose a natural replacement, it only lasts 10-15 years, meaning OHS again, which seems more risky the second time, and also you get more memory loss as a side effect.
If you choose a mechanical one, you're on warfarin and can never get pregnant (I'm hoping to get pregnant as I've not had a child yet, due to circumstances beyond my control). Also the clicking would drive me insane, plus a lot of people seem to say that mechanical ones are rarely fitted 100% properly, so there are still symptoms.
So, overall, I am really more anxious than I was before. Am also (sorry, vain) anxious about the *huge* scar you seem to get - I don't know if UK doctors would do a horizontal one.
I don't want to worry my husband or family, so am hoping someone can say something reassuring.... help!!
Amanda