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Hi all! I am new here and my grandma had aortic valve replacement surgery on March 19th. She is doing ok I guess. She has been having some short term memory loss and we are not sure if this is normal. She just doesn't seem to be quite her old self. We know it hasn't been very long, but we thought she would seem more like herself. She has lost 15 pounds since the surgery, has been having trouble making it to the potty on time, only speaks when asked a question, etc. Her blood pressure has been running kind of low. I don't know anything about this stuff, so any input would be a great help! She live about 80 miles from the hospital that did her surgery... so they aren't much help. Also, she was in the unit 4 days, in a regular room 2 days then released... is this normal???
 
Hi Laura and welcome to VR.

Everything that you describe is perfectly normal given the short time since her surgery. Her body has gone through major events and it takes time for everything to settle back down. The drugs from surgery can make her mind wonder until they all leave the system, which is usually walked off with excersise. As long as she's eating, getting needed rest, and doing her breathing excersises, she should start showing signs of improvement shortly. Her low BP-How low is low? If it's less then 100/70, you might want to check with her Doctor. What medications is she taking now?

Again, welcome to the forums,
Ross
 
Ross, thank you for your info. Her blood pressure has been around 110/60... Some times she just acts very confused. She was always very level headed and responsive before and now she sometimes talks crazy and forgets what she has done just moments before. I know she is on coumadin, she was prior to surgery too. Her visiting nurse is going to take blood tomorrow to check coumadin level because it has been running high. I am not sure what all the other medicines are... I know the doc has changed a lot of her meds now that she has had the surgery. She also sleeps A LOT! She rests most of the day and goes to bed about 8:30 and doesn't get back up until after 9. She has a physical therapist coming now to help with all her exercises. I guess our main concern was when she was in the hospital her oxygen levels were low and she was not really with us... for example when asked a question she couldn't find an answer. Like, "Grandma, do you know where you are?" Her response, "ZXY um, BCD." The nurse really couldn't explain and we were unable to talk to the doc about this. Once again, I thank you for any help you can give as we have never had anyone in the family have this kind of surgery before! Thanks! :p
 
Laura I know what it's like. I was the same way myself. I was in ICU for 50 days and then rehab for 10. I'm stuck on oxygen for life now. I think it's safe to say that things didn't exactly go as planned for me.

It's possible that your grams may have had a small stroke, but I think it's more related to the close timing of the surgery, the medications, and she's still recovering. Rest, food, and excercise are all needed. Not in that order either. Get her to do what she can, but don't have her overdoing it or she'll slide backwards. You don't want that to happen. If her head fuzzy's don't go away in another 2 weeks, you may want to consult the Doctor about it. I think the physical therapist will notice this too and if she doesn't improve soon, may take it upon themselves to notify the Doc. Her BP is normal, low normal, but normal none the less.

If you can find out, get a list of all the meds that she's on and lets try to sort out what's going on. ;)
By the way, how old is Grams?
How long was she on the bypass machine?
Did she have any complications after surgery?
Can you give more details of her surgery?
 
Hi Laura-

Welcome to this wonderful site. Your grandma is only 18 days out of surgery. It is major, major surgery, not like what most people have experienced. It takes a terrible toll on the body, but it is necessary to save lives.

After surgery for about a month, and sometimes, longer, the patient will not be like their old self. There will be some mental confusion and extreme tiredness, weakness, pain and loss of appetite. Some people go through a period of depression which can linger for awhile, and if that doesn't go away in a reasonable amount of time, say 6 months or so, the doctor should be consulted. There are wonderful medications for this, and it is mostly chemical in nature, causes unknown, but very, very common after this kind of major surgery.

Medications given to the patient for pain control can also contribute to the confusion you have mentioned. But pain control is very important for a successful recovery. Each person tolerates these pain meds in a different way. It might be possible for the doctor to make some adjustments to the medications to relieve some of the symptoms. There are other medications which can build up to a higher level than necessary and can cause confusion too. This is something that most surgeons or cardiologist's office can check on. I would run this by them.

As far as the bathroom issue, there are some situations which could be possible. Patients are frequently given diuretics to rid the body of extra fluid. This makes a tremendous urge to go and can't be controlled. Men can keep a small urinal nearby to use, but women have to get up to get to the bathroom, The act of getting up may take your grandma longer time than it used to and may be very painful for her. She will possibly need a hand to help her get up and steady her as she heads to the bathroom.

If she is having a bowel problem, you must discuss this with the doctor. There can be medications causing this, and also some people can get a very difficult diarrhea which needs medications to get rid of. It is not something that should be going on, and should be gotten under control. There again, your grandma might need a steady hand to help her get to the bathroom. All of the bending and flexing needed to get up from a sitting, or reclining position can be very painful for the heart surgery patient. If her bathroom is a long distance from where she is resting, you might want to look into getting a portable potty chair for her. This would be temporary in nature, but might give her some peace of mind.

If she has a small pillow to clutch to her chest while trying to get out of a chair, when coughing and other painful maneuvers, it will help to lessen the pain.

It is very common for heart surgery patients to need the assistance of another person for a couple of weeks after getting home. Just the act of taking a shower can be exhausting and she might even need help with that. Preparing meals is not something that most surgical patients feel like doing for a long while. It is just too exhausting to stand for long periods of time

Your grandma will be in better shape in a couple of weeks, but for now, she will need your family's love and constant care. She will be back to her old self, but it will take some time. She's a bit helpless right now. It's not a comfortable position for a person who has always been self-reliant, but there again it is temporary.

It is wonderful that you are taking the time to help her, she needs that right now.

Please give her my best wishes, and assure her that it will get better and tell her to keep plugging along. She has lots of friends at this site who have been right where she has been and are doing wonderfully well now.

I have helped my husband go through 3 heart valve surgeries, and 2 lung surgeries. They are all about on the same scale of difficult surgeries.

It just takes time and love.

Good luck to you dear, and thanks for caring so much.
 
Ross... I will have to check on all the meds my gram is on. She is in her 70's. She went in originally for a catherization. During this they found a series of problems including the valve, a calcium deposit in one artery, an abdominal aortic aneurysm, and 2 arteries to the left kidney that are narrowed. Two weeks after the catherization they went in to look at the arteries in the neck. Four weeks after that she had the valve replacement surgery. The surgery lasted about 6 hours and the doc explained that the main arteries leading to the left side were bad nearly completely blocked to be exact (one in neck and one that leads to left shoulder/arm) and the on to the right side of the neck was diseased. So she has been through a lot. The only real problems after surgery are as I have described before... low oxygen, low blood pressure, and low blood count. They gave her some blood. One day she would be confused and the next day she was normal... this is still continuing... As soon as I find out all the meds, I will let you know. Thanks again for your info.

Nancy... you have described my gram to a T... tired, loss of appetite, etc. We just are all concerned because no matter what we ask the doc he acts like everything is fine. To us it doesn't seem fine because we've never experienced this before! By hearing from you and Ross and looking through the site I think things are going ok. Sometimes my gram acts like a little kid though, almost baby talk. We are not sure about this?!? Thanks for all of your info!
 
Hi Laura-

I think at this point it is imperative that you know what medications your gram is on and what the side effects are. I will give you a link that you can look them up.

It sounds as if you will have to do some of your own research into understanding just what is going on with your gram. Please read through a lot or all of the Post Surgery posts to see how things compare to what you are witnessing. If it doesn't sound right then please press the doctor, If the surgeon hasn't discharged your gram yet, then he is the one in charge. If he has, then the cardiologist has to be consulted. If both fail to give you answers, then you must take it up with the primary care physician (internist).

Here is a link for drug meds:

http://www.medicinenet.com/medications/article.htm
 
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