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Ross

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Got this from a friend today and really, it couldn't have come at a better time. For those of us that have never fully recovered and suffer depressed, blue days, read this and hopefully it will pick you up too.

The Cracked Pot:

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each
Hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck.

One of the pots had a crack in it while the other
Pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion
Of water. At the end of the long walk from the
Stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the Woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its
Accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After 2 years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream.

"I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house."

The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?"

"That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them."

"For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you
Are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."

Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.

You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.

SO, to all of my crackedpot friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers on your side of the path
 
Thanks Ross!

Thanks Ross!

That is a good treat! PS: Love the new morphing avatar you have! It always makes me chuckle! Brian
 
Yes, Ross,

Yes, Ross,

this was very lovely and I sent it on to friends and family also.

It's nice to think that my life with all my physical and mental flaws, has a beautiful purpose instead of "just serving as a warning for others." :)~

Thanks for posting.

Christina L
 
I recognized it right away!

I recognized it right away!

When I started reading it, I knew I'd seen it somewhere, but in Portuguese!! That's something nice and useful to be reminded of though. Thanks Ross!
Débora
 
Ross:
I am speechless. Just had the most amazing cry that I've had in a long time. Thank you for taking my breath away....and my words too.
Blanche
 
Ross, that was so nice Ross and thanks for sharing that. I've been feeling alittle 'out' of sorts. Since I've only 'retired' this past week I was alittle sad and after a few days home I went into work and gave them my doctors note and said goodbye to all my friends yesterday. It was nice to get the 'closure' feeling and know that we're all going to keep in touch.

But then the human resources lady told me I had to start paying for my health insurance right away and since I'm not coming back to work (doctors orders) - I didn't actually retire - NO I had QUIT .. even though I'd been on intermittent FMLA and still had 200 hours coming to me - that didn't matter. She said you can't be on FMLA - cause you don't plan on coming back. Well, no actually I don't plan on that 'now' - but I still thought I could use up my hours left. Can you believe it - they say I quit - I had 19 years and 10 mos and you only need 10 to retire - but they say I quit.. You can't quit - you don't get your retirement !!! Never mind the fact that my doctor said I couldn't work any longer - and it wasn't a voluntary retirement. luckily I had called my retirement dept last week and they had already scheduled me for a retirement exit interview. Its just a formality and since its alot of red tape it takes a couple mos. to process. So I guess since I can't work and I can't be officially retired - then I'm in the middle and no one knows where to technically put me !!!! So I don't exist at the present time - no, but I damn well better pay my own insurance.

Where's the LOVE !! I ask you - where is the LOVE !!

So much for going back and saying 'goodbye' - it just costed me a bundle of money..

Better days are coming !!!!
M&M
 
Thanks Ross!

Thanks Ross!

Your little story reminded me of something that Joyce Meyer said on her program just last week.

She too, says that we are all "cracked pots" and marred vessels. She says that God chooses cracked pots and He puts His glory in us, because His glory and power will shine through our cracks, and people will know that it is God.

So, none of us should be ashamed of being "cracked pots", (or mended hearts for that matter). God is using us for something, whether it be watering the flowers of life's path, or letting His light shine through our cracks!

I didn't mean to preach here. It just seems like this was something God was speaking to me about this week.
 
If being a cracked pot allows me to stay here with the best bunch of people in the world then I dont want to be fixed...

Lets all leak everywhere and may the world blossom with love...
 
M&M said:
Ross, that was so nice Ross and thanks for sharing that. I've been feeling alittle 'out' of sorts. Since I've only 'retired' this past week I was alittle sad and after a few days home I went into work and gave them my doctors note and said goodbye to all my friends yesterday. It was nice to get the 'closure' feeling and know that we're all going to keep in touch.

But then the human resources lady told me I had to start paying for my health insurance right away and since I'm not coming back to work (doctors orders) - I didn't actually retire - NO I had QUIT .. even though I'd been on intermittent FMLA and still had 200 hours coming to me - that didn't matter. She said you can't be on FMLA - cause you don't plan on coming back. Well, no actually I don't plan on that 'now' - but I still thought I could use up my hours left. Can you believe it - they say I quit - I had 19 years and 10 mos and you only need 10 to retire - but they say I quit.. You can't quit - you don't get your retirement !!! Never mind the fact that my doctor said I couldn't work any longer - and it wasn't a voluntary retirement. luckily I had called my retirement dept last week and they had already scheduled me for a retirement exit interview. Its just a formality and since its alot of red tape it takes a couple mos. to process. So I guess since I can't work and I can't be officially retired - then I'm in the middle and no one knows where to technically put me !!!! So I don't exist at the present time - no, but I damn well better pay my own insurance.

Where's the LOVE !! I ask you - where is the LOVE !!

So much for going back and saying 'goodbye' - it just costed me a bundle of money..

Better days are coming !!!!
M&M
Marilyn unfortunately yes I can believe it. It's not fair, it's not right, but that's the way the world is. I've been through the samething more times then I care to mention, I'm sure Cort has too. I'm ever hopeful that someday, fairness which reach out and grasp us.
 
Don't sign anything yet, Marilyn. Get a lawyer. Your HR department is full of beans. Perhaps you should come back for the 200 hours and retired then. You can claim disability to the extent that they must tailor the work to your abilities.

Beautiful story, Ross. I plan to share it with many.

Best wishes,
 

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