How did your cath go? Was the experience awful, or tolerable? I had two, at different hospitals. The first was a horror story - no patient instructions, nothing of what to expect, blah blah. The second one was a non-event. Friendly efficient nurses, good GOOD drugs lol.
My surgeon & I discussed the minimally invasive route. He's done them, and doesn't have a preference. However, when he drew the line on my breastbone and showed me the difference in scar length between a mini and a full, I told him to go ahead and do the full so he had plenty of room to work. It was only about 1.5-2 inches different. We talked about recovery time, and he told me the difference in his patients recovery times between mini and full were less than a day (as far as hospital stays, anyway).
After my very fist meeting with him, I found his videos about the valve replacement team at the hospital. They are doing more and more TAVR surgeries - the kind where they go in the side between the ribs. It's still for the more medically fragile, but boy oh boy did I have my fingers crossed that maybe it would get approved before I needed surgery! (But no...it didn't. Phooey.)
Questions you should ask your surgeon: Valve type recommendation - mechanical (what brand?) or tissue (what brand?) and why that brand?
What kind of medications will you be on right after surgery? A week after? a month? a year?
How does the surgeon recommend the patient prepare mentally for surgery? Physically?
My advice: start writing things down. My brain seemed to turn to mashed potatoes about 6 weeks before surgery - I couldn't remember tasks, I had difficulty completing administrative tasks at work...I"m not sure if it was mental (anxiety) or physical (reduced blood to my brain). Either way, I feel a jillion times better now.