Finally got my surgery date straightened out... Thurs 13th.

[DavidC]

After some confusion everything is settled. My doc has scheduled me for the 13th. I'm feeling pretty positive right now. Before I honestly felt like I might not make it. Now my fears are pretty much settled and I feel much stronger.

I have to say I've been getting accupuncture (the electro-stim kind) and it's done wonders for my sleeping and general feeling of wellbeing. I was never a believer in it before but now I have to admit there seems to be something to it. My recommendation would be "try it, you'll like it".

I also have noticed my son talking about having symptoms of his heart "beeping". He's 4 and I haven't known what to make of it until the other day when he let me feel his heart and it was pounding so hard. He's already been scheduled for an echo by my cardiologist and will be checked a week after my surgery. I'm so anxious about him I've almost forgotten about myself. I must make it for him. I fear he has the same genetic problem as I do. I'll let you know how that goes.

My wife will call someone on the board or post when she finds out how I'm doing.

David Cross

 

[MitralMan]

David, best of luck.

David, best of luck.

I certainly understand your concern for your son. We're having both our daughters echo'd for the same reason.

 

[Karlynn]

Funny how concern for our children rescues us from too much preoccupation with ourselves. I'm hoping your son's report will be good. And I'm sure your operation will be a huge success. You and your family will be remembered in my prayers.

 

[geebee]

David,
I wish the best for you and your son.
Please take care and keep us posted.
Smiles,
Gina

 

[gijanet]

Oh, David, when it rains, it pours...........

Oh, David, when it rains, it pours...........

so much to deal with at once. I got your PM - thank you - and went WHOA! something's up, so I had to come track down this post. I hadn't seen it yet. Sending major hugs.

First, let's deal with one thing at a time. I have to say that you do sound calm and very much at peace with your surgery. I am grateful for that. Do let us know where you are having your surgery, and please do have someone update us. You know we will be praying, but worrying, too, as we pace here in the global waiting room.

Second, try not to worry too much about your son before anything is confirmed. Does his heart pound all the time? If this was an isolated incident, then it might be nothing............or, if more frequently, it could be something minor and just need monitoring or easily controlled with meds. If, God forbid, that it does turn out to be something more serious, then we can be grateful that it was discovered early, and I will hold your hand all the way through whatever treatment plan the docs throw your way. I can put you in touch with some amazing pediatric heart support groups and resources. The advances made in treating congenital heart defects are absolutely amazing, too. Twenty years ago my daughter would most likely have died before her first birthday, but she is here, doing incredibly well, is very active and quite the little toot - just ask anyone who has met her - all this, despite the fourth impending surgery. But we are definitely putting the cart before the horse, here. I just wanted you to know that there is lots of hope and help out there, should you need it. But I am truly praying that there is nothing wrong. Misery does not love company in this particular case.

I have to confess that the timing of your son's revelation sent chills up my spine. Talk about Divine intervention. It's like God is saying, "Wake up. Quit worrying about yourself. You're gonna have surgery. You're gonna be fine. You have a family to take care of and they need you, so snap out of it." This could be the true source of your peace.

Well, I am sending more hugs and prayers for both you and your son............and for your poor wife. Now she has two loved ones to worry about. Please keep us posted.

 

[Abbanabba]

Dave, I'll be sending positive thoughts to you and your son. Good luck to you both...

Anna : )

 

[doberman]

Good luck with the surgery and I hope everything is ok with your boy. I had my surgery 5 months ago and also have a couple of young children at home. I told my 4 year old that I was going to be as strong as superman once my chest healed. It is really amazing how quickly things will return to a normal routine. Please keep us posted on your progress. I checked back through some of your posts and I am not sure what procedure you are going in for.
Best JD

 

[countryboy]

Best of luck for you and your son. It is amazing what we can accomplish when we have someone else depending upon us.

God Bless,

Bobby

 

[Sherry]

Best wishes to you, David, as you are nearing your surgery. We'll be anxious to hear from a family member as to how you do. Best of luck with your son too.

 

[dawnwit15]

Best wishes

Best wishes

David:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your son. Stay strong and positive. You will get through this. See you on the other side of the mountain!
Dawn

 

[MomOfThree]

David, thinking of you as you go through your surgery. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Wishing you and your son the very best. Take it one day at a time. Get healthy, so that you can be strong for your son and your family. See you on the other side of the mountain, and, you'll see -- it will be such a great view!
Martha

 

[tobagotwo]

You'll be in my thoughts tomorrow, as you go through your surgery. It will go very fast, and will most likely be less of an ordeal than you anticipated. Your own issues must be top in your mind for just a little while.

Here's hoping for an easy recovery and a quick return home. Hospital food sucks!

Best wishes,