Yes, I had
Yes, I had
minimally invasive surgery as that is what Dr. Cosgrove specializes in and does it well. My scar is only 3-4 inches long. I can still wear relatively low tops, but sometimes my scar will peek through and boy, do people's eyes pop out when they catch a glimpse of my scar.
They have this horrified look on their faces.
My surgery went okay, I think. I know from reading the operative report that Dr. Cosgrove scraped away a lot of "scar tissue" from my valve area. I suppose this was from my floppy valves scraping the heart wall. They put a Cosgrove ring around my mitral annulus to tighten the area up, after a lifetime of distention from the blood regurgitation. As I said before, both my posterior and anterior leaflets were floppy. There were no broken chordae on my valve. The operative report also said that Dr. Cosgrove removed a lot of redundant tissue from one of my valve leaflets. My valve was a mess, but not as messy as it could have been, I guess. My mitral valve problems are congenital.
Recovery was interesting. I have selective memory for a lot of things.
People on this board talk about post traumatic stress and really I believe a lot of heart patients have PTSD. It is quite the experience to go through. You feel so fragile and vulnerable afterwards. I don't know how young your son is, but if he is young, he will probably do okay and you will have to MAKE him take it easy and slow down and not do too much at first post surgery. That is crucial. You don't want him compromising his sternum or his repair.
It takes time to heal. Many people on this board told me it would take at least a year before I would feel really good and they were right! I had an issue with atrial fibrillation two weeks after my surgery for which I was cardioverted. I have not had a-fib since (knock on wood). This is very common post surgery, so you might want to be prepared for it. It is just that the heart is "righting" itself. Wayne, my husband, had to give me Lovenox shots in my stomach for several weeks because of the bout of a-fib to prevent a potential blood clot.
I babied myself much more than most, I think. Walking is crucial but please don't let your son overdo it. Slow and easy is the best way during his recovery. Also eating lots of lean protein is vital - to repair the tissues and of course, lots of water and fluids.
The pain was not unbearable but not pleasant. If I remember right, after about a month, I was rarely taking a pain med. My mind was definitely not as clear after the surgery - still isn't, but I try to blame my memory problems on the surgery and not getting older.
I feel very good right now (again knock on wood) and my echoes and exams are all very reassuring. There are some days, I almost totally forget that I have had heart surgery. My exercise tolerance (I walk/run a little on a treadmill) is amazing now.
If you have any more questions, please PM me. I can tell you are very worried about your son, but he is going to be just fine.
P.S. If your son has his surgery done by Dr. Gaudiani, I am sure the hospital he will be in (Sequoia) will be so much quieter and he will have a lot more personal care. The nurses and entire staff (including cleaning people) at Cleveland were gems but they were overworked and a patient at Cleveland is one of hundreds - the older Hispanic man who wheeled me into surgery kissed me on the cheek and said, "God bless you." Even the cleaning ladies said that to me. It made me feel really cared for. However, it was a huge hospital and very, very noisy on the ward - I was put into a private room finally where I could get some sleep and my recovery sped up from that point on.
THAT (sleep) is crucial for your son after his surgery, so please try to get him a private room and tell the staff that he doesn't want to be bothered at all hours of the night. They will have him on many monitors, so he will be watched over carefully.
Okay, enough windiness from me, but hope this helped!
Christina L.