For some reason this was a milestone for me. We went in November, but I couldn't give because it hadn't been a year since the transfusion on surgery day, not because of the surgery or valve itself. I don't think this blood site had had a valve patient before. My husband finished his donation before my interview ended. They asked me to get a letter from my cardiologist before the next attempt. My husband had never given before, so I felt like I'd tricked him, but he was fine.