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Sheila2old
Ok y'all, I go to Atlanta on Monday to see a new surgeon on Tuesday named Dr Omar Lattouf at Emory Crawford Long Hospital. I'm trying to get my 'questions' list going and wondered if any of you have anything to add?
All of you seem so knowledgeable about this and I'm so terrified he'll say no that I can't think straight! I've been told I'm 'inoperable' by my cardiologist, and 'Nope too risky for me' by Cardio/Thoracic surgeon that did my 2Thoracotomy surgeries, 'not a candidate for surgery' by my Pulmonary Dr but they all say 'Yep, you NEED it done!' So what do I do but keep looking for someone to fix me.....but I'm so scared that he'll say no, that I can't get my mind around the questions to ask if he says yes!
And in the meantime I'm so stressed by it all and so tired of feeling like cr*p and staying exhausted. My hubby is a wonderful man but right this minute I want to choke him cause he's so calm and when I mention any of it he just listens and don't say a word! How do I get him to WANT to know all the things I've learned on this site??
The Dr office RN that I spoke with talked with Dr Lattouf while I was on the phone and he told her that he would be "glad to see me and would help me find another Dr if he couldn't do it"......and at the same time they said I would probably go in for surgery within a couple days of my visit since all my tests (EKG, Echo & Cardiac Cath) have been done so recently! UGGH! So when I see him on Tuesday, IF he can do it, I might be in surgery on Thursday?!
I have read, read, read this site since finding it a few weeks ago and I THANK ALL OF YOU for your previous posts that are full of information & laughter too. Thanks to you all, I'm not insane just yet but today it seems like my 'padded cell' is looming closer!
Here is my list so far....please tell me what I'm forgetting because of my fear of rejection again??
Questions about the surgery itself
1. Is this surgery advisable? How High Risk is this?
2. What will likely happen if surgery is not done? How long will my heart last?
3. Will I feel better/have more energy afterwards?
4. Will you be available for complications after the operation?
5. How long does the surgery usually take?
6. Will someone update my family during surgery?
7. How long in the hospital?
8. What kind of follow-up is expected after the procedure?
9. What type of long-term follow-up does one need in the years after surgery (i.e. Doctor visits, echos, EKGs, etc.)?
10. Are you the Dr that will do the surgery? Have others to help?
11. I?m terrified of the ventilator! Don?t want to be aware of it if possible ok??
12. How soon should this be done?
Questions about the surgeon & rate of success
1. How many valve replacements/double valves have you done?
2. What has been your success rate? Your long-term success rates?
3. Have you had much/how much experience with Radiated hearts?
4. What is your mortality rate?
5. What about Transplant List options?
Other Questions Regarding Pre-Op and Post-Op Care
1. Can my husband stay with me or be allowed in when he wants?
2. What is 'Plan B' if the surgery cannot be performed for some reason?
3. What would have to happen for you to revert to 'Plan B'?
4. What effect will my Osteoporosis (-3.2) have on the sternum healing?
5. What type of materials are you going to use (valve type)?
6. What will you do for nausea - will you give medication to treat it? How liberally? (Can?t take Phenergan!!)
7. What will you give for pain meds? How liberally?
8. What kinds of post-op medication will I have take (e.g. aspirin, blood thinner, blood pressure med, etc.)? For life, or approximately how long?
9. Who will be my cardiologist afterwards?
All of you seem so knowledgeable about this and I'm so terrified he'll say no that I can't think straight! I've been told I'm 'inoperable' by my cardiologist, and 'Nope too risky for me' by Cardio/Thoracic surgeon that did my 2Thoracotomy surgeries, 'not a candidate for surgery' by my Pulmonary Dr but they all say 'Yep, you NEED it done!' So what do I do but keep looking for someone to fix me.....but I'm so scared that he'll say no, that I can't get my mind around the questions to ask if he says yes!
And in the meantime I'm so stressed by it all and so tired of feeling like cr*p and staying exhausted. My hubby is a wonderful man but right this minute I want to choke him cause he's so calm and when I mention any of it he just listens and don't say a word! How do I get him to WANT to know all the things I've learned on this site??
The Dr office RN that I spoke with talked with Dr Lattouf while I was on the phone and he told her that he would be "glad to see me and would help me find another Dr if he couldn't do it"......and at the same time they said I would probably go in for surgery within a couple days of my visit since all my tests (EKG, Echo & Cardiac Cath) have been done so recently! UGGH! So when I see him on Tuesday, IF he can do it, I might be in surgery on Thursday?!
I have read, read, read this site since finding it a few weeks ago and I THANK ALL OF YOU for your previous posts that are full of information & laughter too. Thanks to you all, I'm not insane just yet but today it seems like my 'padded cell' is looming closer!
Here is my list so far....please tell me what I'm forgetting because of my fear of rejection again??
Questions about the surgery itself
1. Is this surgery advisable? How High Risk is this?
2. What will likely happen if surgery is not done? How long will my heart last?
3. Will I feel better/have more energy afterwards?
4. Will you be available for complications after the operation?
5. How long does the surgery usually take?
6. Will someone update my family during surgery?
7. How long in the hospital?
8. What kind of follow-up is expected after the procedure?
9. What type of long-term follow-up does one need in the years after surgery (i.e. Doctor visits, echos, EKGs, etc.)?
10. Are you the Dr that will do the surgery? Have others to help?
11. I?m terrified of the ventilator! Don?t want to be aware of it if possible ok??
12. How soon should this be done?
Questions about the surgeon & rate of success
1. How many valve replacements/double valves have you done?
2. What has been your success rate? Your long-term success rates?
3. Have you had much/how much experience with Radiated hearts?
4. What is your mortality rate?
5. What about Transplant List options?
Other Questions Regarding Pre-Op and Post-Op Care
1. Can my husband stay with me or be allowed in when he wants?
2. What is 'Plan B' if the surgery cannot be performed for some reason?
3. What would have to happen for you to revert to 'Plan B'?
4. What effect will my Osteoporosis (-3.2) have on the sternum healing?
5. What type of materials are you going to use (valve type)?
6. What will you do for nausea - will you give medication to treat it? How liberally? (Can?t take Phenergan!!)
7. What will you give for pain meds? How liberally?
8. What kinds of post-op medication will I have take (e.g. aspirin, blood thinner, blood pressure med, etc.)? For life, or approximately how long?
9. Who will be my cardiologist afterwards?