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MichyB
Hi. I am new here. I have always known that I had a murmer but recently it was discovered that it is a bicuspid valve. I was told that I am healthy ... good ejection fraction (65-67), only mildly stenotic etc. But, I've been following posts of others on this board who are my age (31) and who are considering surgery early and/or who are worried about their heart history.
I am so confused because a good doc at NYU told me that I should not worry ... that he will be retired before I need surgery because I am so young. I have also been following Lemonstuff's story and Christain's story on the relatives board and have come to realize more and more that young people (especially of child bearing years) have to think about these things sooner than our doctors some times tell us and I just don't know where I fit in the spectrum of this. Do I just plan to have a family and not worry about it? Do I wait for my condition to worsen before thinking of surgery?
Any others out there feel a little lost when it comes to having a heart condition when you are of child bearing years?
I am so confused because a good doc at NYU told me that I should not worry ... that he will be retired before I need surgery because I am so young. I have also been following Lemonstuff's story and Christain's story on the relatives board and have come to realize more and more that young people (especially of child bearing years) have to think about these things sooner than our doctors some times tell us and I just don't know where I fit in the spectrum of this. Do I just plan to have a family and not worry about it? Do I wait for my condition to worsen before thinking of surgery?
Any others out there feel a little lost when it comes to having a heart condition when you are of child bearing years?