Phyllis Jean:
On our first date, in March 1980, my husband asked first if I wanted to have children (he had just turned 34, I was 29). I said I didn't really have to have them. Then he asked if I liked cats. Guess he wanted to nip it in the bud if I didn't like cats! He proposed 10 days later, asking when -- not IF -- I wanted to get married. We married 7/3/1980.
We got our first cat -- a blue tabby shorthair ("alley cat") -- 2 weeks before moving into our first home in December 1980. Within 6 months, we had our 2nd, a pale red tabby shorthair. In December 1983 we got our 3rd, our first Abyssinian. We acquired a black shorthair in 1985 off our front porch.
After our red tabby died of hepatic lipidosis in December 1987, we started looking for a 2nd Aby. Got him the day Jerry Jones fired Tom Landry as the Dallas Cowboys' coach (bad decision, Jerry!).
That Aby got me into showing cats. I got into breeding Abys in 1990 and became an apprentice shorthair judge in Cat Fanciers' Association in October 2003.
We've also lived with Orientals, Persians, a Birman, a Maine Coon, a Himalayan, Chartreux, American Shorthairs and Ocicats. My avatar shows me holding the Himalayan, who now lives in northern California.
I name our cats for universities/schools: Vassar, Exeter, Occidental, Pomona, Vanderbilt, Amherst, Slippery Rock U., Cairo U., L.S.U., Claremont, Brandeis, Wellesley, Texas A&M, UT-Austin, Juilliard, Sorbonne, Harvard, M.I.T. and the list goes on. Most of those are retired show cats living in a pet home.
There is something unique about all cats, regardless if they have a known pedigree or have mixed parentage. You do have to understand basic feline behavior, because cats are not "little dogs."
I enjoy judging. It's kinda like being a grandparent or aunt/uncle: You get to play with them, and then the "parents" take them home!