Hi Glenda,
Sorry to hear that your mother is dealing with such complicated issues. My mother was also on dialysis with numerous issues including heart issues. At the end of her life, she chose to end dialysis rather than continue to fight an uphill battle to retain diminishing quality of life. For her, I believe, it was the right thing to do. We had the privilege of spending our last days together, had the priviledge of saying goodbye on our own time and the knowledge that letting her go set her free from the bondage of her bodily limitations. Hospice was great in helping with the transition from life into death. If your mother wants to be made comfortable as she nears her twilight, find a doctor that will do it. If she has a prognosis of less than six months, then you might consider contacting hospice. Best wishes to you and your mom.
Melissa