Welcome to the group!
Welcome to the group!
Hi, Terry! I am fairly new here myself, but you will find that the people here are wonderful and very supportive. Mia is adorable and congratulations on the adoption.
This is only my two cents, but I would get a second opinion from another pediatric cardiologist, preferably one affiliated with a large institution. You will find that opinions can vary greatly from one institution to another.
There could be legitimate reasons for postponing Mia's surgery, but not simply "that she is too small for repair." I would have to ask then what kind of repair they have in mind. Are they afraid that it might have to be replaced? If so, then that would be a legitimate reason to wait until she is bigger, but not at the expense of her heart becoming enlarged. I assume they are monitoring her closely to watch for that. Or could they be considering a procedure where they replace the mitral valve with her pulmonary valve - I think it's the ross? Maybe not. Dunno, that one is out of my ballpark as it was not an option for us. If so, then the bigger Mia gets, the better..........again, not at the expense of her heart deteriorating. If the regurgitation can be adequately controlled through use of an ACE inhibitor, then that would be another reason to "wait and see."
My daughter Katie "rode" with a leaking valve for three years. It was mild, then moderate, then finally classified as severe last November. A repair was attempted last April. Sadly, one month post-op we found out that the repair was not holding up, and we are back to a moderate leak again. We have gone for monthly echoes since then to monitor her heart function. Her surgeon would like to be able to wait until her one year anniversary from her last OHS before he goes in again - this time most likely for a replacement. He would like to give her a year's recovery time, but not at the expense of her ventricles weakening. Thus, the close monitoring.
Your PC may be right on track, but I would certainly ask more questions, and, it never, ever hurts to get a second opinion. Fortunately, too, second (and third and fourth, etc.) opinions do not cost anything if you obtain them from any of the large pediatric heart centers. We have sought out numerous opinions from CHOP, Boston Children's, Texas Children's, and the University of Michigan. The only institution that ever charged us was our local children's hospital - go figure!
Anyway, hope this helps and please e-mail me if you have any more questions that I might be able to help you with. I belong to a couple of pediatric heart support groups, but I have not found many parents in there with kids who have had their valves replaced. Let me know, though, if you would be interested in those.
Good luck and keep us posted.