Hi
Hockey Heart;n886879 said:
I am the husband in this post initiated by my wife. Today, we met with the cardiac surgeon that would be doing to the TAVR.
I just observed this point, as I had skimmed too quickly the first time, and didn't observe your history of posts. So (as you see I've replied to your older post) I read a few of your "agonizations" about choices.
I expect you are now (or I hope you are now) seeing what people who told you "reduced druability with a tissue valve in yournger patients" meant. So I think you should now be considering that you've used up one of your choices and its time to reflect on things in a far more real and experienced way (I mean now that you have actual valve surgery experience).
I had my sugery for my mechanical in 2011 (so about as long a duration as yours) and like pretty much all the mechanical valvers my valve is still doing fine and is anticipated to do so for longer duration than I'll live for.
Remember your family as you make these decisions and reflect on what happens to them. I think there is sufficient evidence to suggest your fears of warfarin may be exaggerated (perhaps at least as much as your exaggerations of how long you might get on a TAVR and or another Tissue Valve). Complications and issues only increase with subsequent surgeries, anyone what suggests otherwise is fooling either themselves or attempting for fool you.
Like I say on my blog here:
http://cjeastwd.blogspot.com/2014/01/heart-valve-information-for-choices.html
Anyway, enough about you, think for a moment about your family.
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She put on a brave face, but the fact is that she was scared shitless that I would die and she would be left without me.
She was so pleased because she was so relieved. I would not want to put her through that again. If you are a reasonably healthy adult, and you choose a tissue valve you will for sure be putting your loved ones through it again.
Is that something you want to do to them?
There is a log in that post and I recommend you read it all carefully.
Best Wishes with your second chance decision