Natanni said:
Marguerite-what did the doctor say about the two kids follow up? Annual echos? Echo's every 5 years?
Well, that's where it gets sticky. I'm doing this all "under the table" because they are 18, 21 and 23 and close to being on their own (well, the oldest is) and needing health insurance (oldest on student health as grad student), and life insurance, etc. I don't want anything compromising their ability to get quality, full coverage health care....but I didn't want to NOT know if there was some underlying problem. Basically, I just wanted to be sure that there was no immediate concern.....no aneurisms, no Marfan's (a silly, somewhat obsessive thought, and never having been very likely), no stenotic bicuspids....etc.. I lived for 25+ years knowing about my bicuspid (and 25 years before that NOT knowing about it!). The boys workout, lift weights, etc. The daughter plays college sports. It just seemed wise to have a look. There have been NO murmurs. And I have those doctors listen really hard each time they are seen, for anything.
My daughter's echo was cash. Very expensive. My cardio read the echo, gratis, having never seen my daughter. (actually, when they were wheeling me out of the hospital, we ran into my cardio and she joked that it was nice to finally meet the "outside" of my daughter, who was there with me!!
) It is in a file, but has never been reported to an insurance company. The cardio recommended for her to use prophylactic antibiotics before dental work. My daughter's internist said that was totally unneccesary and that antibiotics can be dangerous if overused and that she, personally, with this marginal of a report, would never dose her own kids. I do so love the ambivalence we are always faced with....not!
My son had only comments from a research cardiologist who saw him only for the echo (which was free to us as it is a part of a University hospital study). I am convinced by his remarks and all that I know, that I will stay mum about the findings, educate my son about symptoms, make sure he has regular checkups, and wait until the day when someone hears a murmur, or my son develops symptoms. I may tell the dentist to give him antibiotics.....haven't decided yet. May ask the cardio to look over the results. Don't think she'll be very comfortable doing that, tho.
So, no. I will not encourage any follow-up echoes unless the kids' doctor hears a murmur or there are symptoms. If my kids were much younger, I would have gone about it a different way..........but when you are still paying for private college for 3......well, life does get in the way!!
Marguerite