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momshell7
Ok here is a touchy subject I hope I can get some advice on. Jeff and I have been getting on each other's nerves the last few days. It seems like no matter what the other one does it's wrong. I know that once Jeff had his date set for his surgery we seemed to fight for the next week or so. I just figured that it was because the surgery had instantly become REAl and our nerves really set in. Prior to that we knew it was coming but until we had a date it was just "in the future". We saw the surgeon on Tuesday for a follow up and it seems like since then Jeff has been in a bad mood and it then rubs off on me. The surgeon said he was doing really good but that Jeff had to wait a total of four weeks to drive and go back to work half time. I don't know if the frustration of that is what is doing it or what. He has started back to work, against his doctor's orders. I am driving him to his appointments but he is still wanting to spend a lot of time at this office. His job is not physically demanding but I still worry. We need the money so unfortunately I can't protest too much. HELP!! I don't want to fight constantly!! I also don't want him to do too much too soon! AUGH