Pem, I've had 3 ablations. The first one was a very, very long time ago when they still had to do them through OHS and actually cut the area that needed to be ablated. That ablation actually worked extremely well and stopped that particular arrhythmia to this day. I then had two more ablations about 4 years ago after my second OHS, with somewhat mixed results. The first ablation wasn't successful at all, hence the need for the second one. That one was more successful that the first one, however, it wasn't 100%. Having said that, my rhythm issues were very complex and difficult to track down, so that outcome would not probably be the norm for a first timer with no scar tissue in their heart, etc. I wouldn't hesitate to go back for another ablation if a situation arose that called for it.
I definitely wouldn't let just anyone do an ablation on me. It's just like heart surgeons, some EP's are used to doing more of a certain type of procedure than others, so I would make sure that they have experience treating this type of issue that your relative has. At my local clinic, there are several EP's, but my congenital cardio won't let any of them near me because he says they just don't have the experience to take care of my issues, that they mostly only deal with elderly people who need pacemakers or who have a-fib, so I traveled for my ablations just like I did for my surgery. Luckily, this clinic just recently hired the EP from the Mayo clinic who did my last two ablations, so he is now here so I don't have to travel if I need another.
Kim