Yes, I think this is the right forum for this.
I'm saying this because for all the years since I got my St. Jude aortic valve, the dentists wanted me to pre-medicate with 2 Grams of Amoxicillin before I visited them. This was to reduce the risk of endocarditis that is possible when the gums are compromised.
I have a tooth that was filled years ago. Apparently, I had a root canal done. There was still 'tooth' where the canal was done, but still a hole that went into my mouth - and maybe into my jaw.
The thing was covered with amalgam (silver/mercury) to cover the hole and build the tooth back up. Every few years, some of it breaks. My last dentist put more amalgam on it, and I was good for another year or two. He mentioned a crown but didn't push it.
The last time the amalgam split off, I decided just to leave it alone. Eventually, more parts of the filling split off, more parts of the amalgam cracked, and it eventually felt like there was a small piece covering the remaining hole from the root canal. I figured that the area of the canal was healed up, but I didn't want to take my chances. I figured that it was time to get a dentist to look at it.
My original dentist didn't take insurance. I chose one that was supposedly well rated and took my insurance.
It was then that things seemed to go a bit south.
They x-rayed the tooth. He told me that I had to get it extracted.
I told him that the last time I had an extraction, it bled for hours and was a problem to get the bleeding to stop. He told me that 'nobody leaves my office bleeding' - which I took to mean that he may try electrocautery to stop the bleeding. I told him that I had an oral surgeon to do an extraction if I need one.
I asked what I'd be putting up with with TWO missing teeth, one next to the other. He said I may need a bridge - an appliance that I wouldn't do well with and wouldn't want to mess with. I told him that I just wanted the tooth packed.
His assistant packed the tooth and built it up with some stuff designed for this purpose.
So - here are my thoughts:
This dentist didn't care that I could leave the office with a functional tooth.
He didn't care about INR or pre-medication (maybe guidelines have changed?)
He seemed more interested in making money on an extraction and a dental appliance than he was in providing actual care.
I won't be seeing this guy again. It seems to be more about money than care.
How have YOUR experiences been? Do you trust your dentist?